--- title: John Kelly Visited His Son’s Grave on Memorial Day description: White House Chief of Staff General John Kelly visited his son Robert Michael Kelly's grave at Arlington National Cemetery on Monday. canonical: https://time.com/5293727/john-kelly-visits-sons-grave-arlington-national-cemetary/ author: Alana Abramson article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2018-05-29T13:43:07.000Z article:modified_time: 2023-12-12T19:39:02.000Z article:section: Politics og:title: John Kelly Visited His Son’s Grave on Memorial Day og:description: Robert Michael Kelly was killed in Afghanistan in 2010 og:url: https://time.com/5293727/john-kelly-visits-sons-grave-arlington-national-cemetary/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltebd0a5ac537844da/698931b1929fad574ebf0b16/johnkelly4.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 3500 og:image:height: 1969 og:image:alt: Memorial Day Visitors Pay Their Respects To The Fallen At Arlington Nat'l Cemetery og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: John Kelly Visited His Son’s Grave on Memorial Day twitter:description: Robert Michael Kelly was killed in Afghanistan in 2010 twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltebd0a5ac537844da/698931b1929fad574ebf0b16/johnkelly4.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # John Kelly Visited His Son’s Grave With President Trump on Memorial Day > Sponsored content. 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Brief is TIME's Washington newsletter, written by senior correspondent Philip Elliott. It explains the politics, personalities and power dynamics behind the headlines, three times a week. It reaches 85,000 subscribers with a 37.0% open rate as of August 2026. #### Where can I get analysis of Washington politics by email? D.C. Brief is TIME's free Washington politics newsletter, available at time.com/newsletters. It is written by a TIME senior correspondent who covers the capital full time. #### Who writes TIME's D.C. Brief? Philip Elliott, a senior correspondent at TIME, writes D.C. Brief. #### Is D.C. Brief free? Yes. D.C. Brief is free at time.com/newsletters.  by [Alana Abramson](https://time.com/author/alana-abramson/)  ## Alana Abramson Updated: Dec 12, 2023 7:39 PM UTCPublished: May 29, 2018 1:43 PM UTC  White House Chief of Staff John Kelly and his wife Karen pay their respects to their son, Marine Lt. Robert Kelly, at Arlington National Cemetery on Memorial Day, May 27, 2018 in Arlington, Virginia White House Chief of Staff John Kelly and his wife Karen pay their respects to their son, Marine Lt. Robert Kelly, at Arlington National Cemetery on Memorial Day, May 27, 2018 in Arlington, VirginiaAaron P. Bernstein—Getty Images  by [Alana Abramson](https://time.com/author/alana-abramson/)  ## Alana Abramson Updated: Dec 12, 2023 7:39 PM UTCPublished: May 29, 2018 1:43 PM UTC White House Chief of Staff General John Kelly took a moment from his [Memorial Day appearance with President Donald Trump](http://time.com/5293225/trump-memorial-day/) at Arlington National Cemetery to make a public acknowledgement of his own loss. Kelly, along with his wife Karen Hernest and the President, visited his son’s grave at Arlington on Monday. Photographs of Trump’s visit to Arlington showed Kelly and Trump visiting the gravesite of Kelly’s son Robert Michael Kelly, [who was killed in Afghanistan](http://articles.latimes.com/2010/nov/22/world/la-fg-marine-burial-20101123) in 2010 when he was 29. Although Kelly is the[ highest ranking military officer](http://time.com/magazine/us/4894983/august-21st-2017-vol-190-no-7-u-s/) to lose a child in Iraq or Afghanistan, he has often avoided talking about the death of his son. In November 2010, just four days after his son’s death, he told a[ Marine officer introducing him](https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/lt-gen-john-kelly-who-lost-son-to-war-says-us-largely-unaware-of-sacrifice/2016/12/07/b269fb7a-3eb1-11e0-bc13-e0b46ef0ad9a%5Fstory.html?utm%5Fterm=.5015cb89cd95) in a speech not to mention what had just happened, the _Washington Post_ reported at the time. “We are only one of 5,500 American families who have suffered the loss of a child in this war,” Kelly wrote in an e-mail to the _Post_ for that article. “The death of my boy simply cannot be made to seem any more tragic than the others.” But both Kelly and his late son became enmeshed in the debate over fallen soldiers after the controversy last October, after President Trump placed calls to the four military families who had lost loved ones during an ambush in Niger. One of the widows alleged that Trump told her that her husband “knew what he was signing up for,” which caused immediate pushback. Kelly gave a [rare appearance](http://time.com/4990521/john-kelly-donald-trump-soldier-death-transcript/) in the White House briefing room at the height of that debate, speaking to reporters about the death of his son and defending the President.  As Vice President Mike Pence and White House Chief of Staff John Kelly shake hands, President Donald Trump lays flowers on the grave of Kelly's son Robert at Arlington National Cemetery on May 29, 2017 in Arlington, Virginia. Marine Lieutenant Robert Kelly was killed in 2010 while leading a patrol in Afghanistan Aaron P. Bernstein—Getty Images  The grave of Marine Lt. Robert Kelly, son of White House Chief of Staff John Kelly, is seen at Arlington National Cemetery on Memorial Day, May 27, 2018 in Arlington, Virginia Aaron P. 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