--- title: How to Parent Like a Scandinavian description: Including letting kids nap outdoors (even in the cold), watch cartoons with genitals for characters and get absolutely covered in dirt canonical: https://time.com/4968712/parenting-advice-scandinavian/ author: TIME article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2017-10-04T18:16:44.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-08-04T07:54:05.435Z article:section: Ideas og:title: How to Parent Like a Scandinavian og:description: For one, let your baby nap outdoors — yes, even in the cold og:url: https://time.com/4968712/parenting-advice-scandinavian/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt3ecb8d716ce0c252/6988e07e22fb851830e231f9/parent-children-outside.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 2459 og:image:height: 1383 og:image:alt: Rear View Of Mother And Children Standing On Hill Against Sky During Foggy Weather og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: How to Parent Like a Scandinavian twitter:description: For one, let your baby nap outdoors — yes, even in the cold twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt3ecb8d716ce0c252/6988e07e22fb851830e231f9/parent-children-outside.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # How to Parent Like a Scandinavian > Sponsored content. 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It explains how TIME's journalism is made, from the first pitch through the editorial decisions behind a finished story or cover. #### How can I read about how TIME chooses its covers? Inside TIME is the newsletter where TIME's Editor-in-Chief explains cover selection and the editorial reasoning behind major stories. It is free at time.com/newsletters. #### Who is the editor of TIME? Sam Jacobs is TIME's Editor-in-Chief. He writes Inside TIME, a twice-weekly newsletter about the newsroom's reporting and editorial decisions. #### Is Inside TIME free? Yes. Inside TIME is a free newsletter, available at time.com/newsletters. A paid TIME subscription is separate and available at time.com/subscribe-agent. ## Video: Kids Believe Gender Stereotypes By Age 10, Global Study Says [Watch (HLS stream): Kids Believe Gender Stereotypes By Age 10, Global Study Says](https://cdn.jwplayer.com/manifests/Mxt8idTB.m3u8) (1:47)  _Published 2017-09-20. In almost every society, from Baltimore to Beijing, boys are told from a young age to go outside and have adventures, while young girls are encouraged to stay home and do chores_ by [Linda Åkeson McGurk](https://time.com/author/linda-akeson-mcgurk/) ## Linda Åkeson McGurk Oct 4, 2017 6:16 PM UTC  Reto Deuber / EyeEm—Getty Images/EyeEm by [Linda Åkeson McGurk](https://time.com/author/linda-akeson-mcgurk/) ## Linda Åkeson McGurk Oct 4, 2017 6:16 PM UTC When I [became a mom ](http://motto.time.com/4528398/working-moms-80-20-rule-work-life-balance/)in the U.S., the [parenting experience](http://time.com/4074165/parenting-style-quiz-millennial-boomer-silent-generation/) was nothing like I had expected. The playgrounds, which I thought would be teeming with children, were often deserted. Most young children seemed to be either [glued to a screen at home](http://motto.time.com/4734839/five-ways-to-transform-your-kids-screen-time/) or being drilled with academics at preschool. When I went outside for daily walks with my baby in the winter, people took pity on us and offered me rides. Meanwhile in my native Sweden, kids gear up to go [outside](http://time.com/4273570/should-send-kids-outside-play/) every day, regardless of the weather, both at home and at preschool. Forget flash cards, wall words and [kindergarten readiness](http://time.com/money/4906545/oldest-kids-have-college-leg-up/) — Scandinavian parents are keener to have their young children climb trees and dig for earthworms than learn academic facts. But this is far from the only surprising difference between the two [parenting cultures](http://time.com/3720541/how-to-parent-like-a-german/). ### Let your baby nap outside all year. Most Scandinavian parents are so adamant about giving their [infants](http://time.com/4707909/infant-mortality-rate-death-decline/) and toddlers fresh air every day that they let them take their naps in prams outside. Yes, even in the winter and even in freezing temperatures. The advantage of this practice? Parents report that babies take longer and [deeper naps](http://time.com/3666055/naps-babies-memories/) when they [sleep comfortably](http://time.com/collection/guide-to-sleep/) bundled up outside in the cold, and most felt the practice was healthy because of the fresh air, according to one [Finnish study](http://blog.uwgb.edu/nursing/files/2010/11/Tourulaetal2008.pdf). Doctors also recommend it as a way to decrease children’s exposure to germs and reduce the risk of infection. ### Don’t obsess over gender. Nope, you won’t find any gender reveal parties or other ceremonies revolving around the [sex of a baby](http://time.com/4276193/child-gender-identity/) in Scandinavia. In fact, hospitals in Sweden typically won’t share the sex of a baby even if they can see it during a sonogram, so most parents-to-be don’t know what they’re having until the day the baby is born. Parents feel strongly about treating boys and girls [the same](http://time.com/3069789/gender-neutral-childhood-tech-entrepreneur/) and are no stranger to protesting companies whose clothing or toys cement stereotypical gender roles. Some parents even choose to send their children to gender-neutral nursery schools, where the pedagogy specifically focuses on breaking with [traditional gender roles](http://time.com/4948607/gender-stereotypes-roles/). ### Don’t use corporal punishment. Sweden was the first country in the world to ban [spanking](http://time.com/4359686/parents-spanking-survey-does-spanking-work/) and all other forms of corporal punishment in 1979, and its neighbors Finland and Norway soon followed suit. Although spanking was once a common way to discipline your child, more and more parents voluntarily moved away from the practice in the 1960s, as “the continuous growth of a democratic, egalitarian ideal meant that more and more Swedes felt that all people — children too — should enjoy equal protection from violence,” according to the official site of Sweden. Today, using any type of physical discipline is a foreign concept to Scandinavian parents. ### Relax about nudity. Scandinavian parents encourage young kids to run around in their birthday suit outside whenever the temperature permits. Instead of thinking of nudity as something shameful, parents believe it’s important for children to be knowledgeable about and feel comfortable with [their own bodies](http://time.com/3971092/body-dissatisfaction-kids/). This belief is reflected in children’s books, which sometimes sport anatomically correct illustrations of children with no clothes on. And when the Swedish public service TV launched a cartoon for preschoolers featuring a singing penis and vagina (called “Willie and Twinkle” in the [English version](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bvnRMARfU0E)), it quickly became a viral sensation. Not because parents were outraged, but because most of them loved it. ### Encourage your kids to run wild and get dirty. Messy, [wild play outdoors](http://time.com/4662650/nature-happiness-stress/) is seen as a perfectly natural, even cherished, part of [childhood](http://time.com/4963182/parents-kids-success-teachers-advice/) in Scandinavian society and parents welcome muddy boots, scraped knees and piles of filthy clothes as proof that their children had a good day filled with adventure and exploration. Scandinavians happily forgo both pocket-sized hand sanitizers and chlorine-infused toy-cleaning routines, and don’t panic if their charges happen to sample a clump of dirt. [Recent studies](http://time.com/2828841/why-you-should-let-kids-eat-dirt/) suggest that they’re on to something, as microbes in the soil may help kids — and their [immune systems](http://time.com/time-health-immune-system/) — become more resilient to [allergies](http://time.com/time-health-allergies/) and asthma. The subjects of those studies? 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