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They’re grateful_** **WINSTON CHURCHILL LETTER TO CLEMENTINE CHURCHILL, 1948** _Churchill wrote this on the couple’s fortieth anniversary._ My Beloved, I send this token, but how little can it express my gratitude to you for making my life & any work I have done possible, and for giving me so much happiness in a world of accident & storm. Your ever loving and devoted husband W ## **_2\. They forgive and forget_** **OGDEN NASH “A WORD TO HUSBANDS,” 1931** _OgdenNash (1902–1971) was not always this economical in his verse, but was frequently this blunt._ To keep your marriage brimming, With love in the loving cup, Whenever you’re wrong, admit it; Whenever you’re right, shut up. **_Read More:_** [**_The Kitchen Garbage Can That Saved My Marriage_**](https://www.realsimple.com/food-recipes/tools-products/kitchen-garbage-can) ## **_3\. They’re each other’s cheerleader_** **HENRY NEUMANN MODERN YOUTH AND MARRIAGE, 1928** _Henry Neumann (1882–1966) was a leader of the Society for Ethical Culture, a movement founded in 1876 by Felix Adler on the principle that ethics are independent of theology._ Disillusion, of course, enters in time. There are no full-grown perfect beings. Sooner or later the frailties are recognized. But there is in most people a better self which the fallible self hides; and the greatest privilege of the married life is to be the one who assists the other more and more to do justice to that better possibility. ## **_4\. They’re realistic_** **H. L. MENCKEN A BOOK OF BURLESQUES, 1916** Strike an average between what a woman thinks of her husband a month before she marries him and what she thinks of him a year afterward, and you will have the truth about him in a very handy form. **_Read More:_** [**_The World’s Best Advice for a Happy Marriage_**](https://www.realsimple.com/work-life/family/relationships/best-marriage-advice) ## **_5\. They have complete trust in one another_** **ELBERT HUBBARD LOVE, LIFE & WORK, 1906** There are six requisites in every happy marriage; the first is Faith and the remaining five are Confidence. ## 6\. **_They accept each other’s differences_** **SAMUEL TAYLOR COLERIDGE TABLE TALK, 1824** You may depend upon it, that a slight contrast of character is very material to happiness in marriage. **_Read More:_** [**_7 Secrets to Making Your Marriage Work_**](https://www.realsimple.com/seven-principles-to-making-marriage-work-gottman) ## **_7\. They know marriage is a work in progress_** **MARK TWAIN NOTEBOOK, 1894** _Samuel Clemens had been married twenty-four years when he wrote this in his notebook._ Love seems the swiftest, but is the slowest of all growths. No man or woman really knows what perfect love is until they have been married a quarter of a century. _From THE MARRIAGE BOOK edited by Lisa Grunwald and Stephen Adler. Copyright © by Lisa Grunwald and Stephen J. Adler. Reprinted by permission of Simon & Schuster, Inc. 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