--- title: John Mayer Wants You to Know He's Not That Guy at the Party description: The singer commented on an Instagram meme calling out all those guys who play guitar at parties when people haven't asked for music. canonical: https://time.com/4731175/john-mayer-on-guitar-meme/ author: Raisa Bruner article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2017-04-07T19:16:57.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-04-13T07:42:38.830Z og:title: John Mayer Never Busts Out His Guitar at Parties og:description: "I don't even do this," he said of the party faux pas of whipping out a guitar. og:url: https://time.com/4731175/john-mayer-on-guitar-meme/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltde093bcdab65f2d0/6988d9b9bc6cfc69913e2a3c/time-logo.jpg?branch=production og:image:width: 1200 og:image:height: 675 og:image:alt: TIME og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: John Mayer Never Busts Out His Guitar at Parties twitter:description: "I don't even do this," he said of the party faux pas of whipping out a guitar. twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltde093bcdab65f2d0/6988d9b9bc6cfc69913e2a3c/time-logo.jpg?branch=production --- # John Mayer Wants You to Know He's Not That Guitar Guy at the Party > Sponsored content. 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Every edition is assembled by TIME editors rather than generated automatically. ### Sources * TIME Newsletters: [time.com/newsletters](/c/time-nl-brief-2026q3/newsletters?i=4bd78e9b-0a80-4d68-850b-ea571bc28581&cr=time-nl-brief-2026q3-v1)  by [Raisa Bruner](https://time.com/author/raisa-bruner/)  ## Raisa Bruner Apr 7, 2017 7:16 PM UTC  by [Raisa Bruner](https://time.com/author/raisa-bruner/)  ## Raisa Bruner Apr 7, 2017 7:16 PM UTC John Mayer may be in the midst of [his musical comeback](http://time.com/4711217/john-mayer-breakup-song-katy-perry/?iid=sr-link2) with the release of new album _The Search for Everything_, but he’s still got time to lurk around on Instagram and defend his reputation. As eagle-eyed Insta-scrollers discovered, Mayer stopped by comedy account and prolific meme-maker Tank Sinatra’s feed recently to comment on a post that name-called Mayer himself. The post in question was a meme of comedian [Hannibal Buress](http://time.com/3951777/why-with-hannibal-buress-amy-schumer-twitter-troll/). The caption? “When ur \[sic\] at a party having a nice time and some wanna be \[sic\] John Mayer whips out a guitar and ruins everything.” It’s a relatable experience; at some point or other, most of us have been unwittingly forced to become audience members for an amateur guitarist’s well-meaning but unwanted strumming. Mayer’s cutting response to the meme, however, takes it even farther: “I don’t even do this,” [he wrote](https://twitter.com/russianbabe54/status/850086967131779073). The openly emotive singer may be willing to [pine publicly for his ex](http://time.com/4711217/john-mayer-breakup-song-katy-perry/) and [dance with pandas](https://twitter.com/JohnMayer/status/849667256183336963) in his latest music video, but apparently he draws the line at playing sappy songs for an unwilling audience. Take note, internet and anyone who’s considered busting out the guitar at a party: even the pro himself won’t play that acoustic rendition of “Wonderwall” without a proper invitation. 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