--- title: North Korea: Defector Hyeonseo Lee Interview description: North Korean defector Hyeonseo Lee is setting up an NGO to advocate for refugees in China who are vulnerable to physical and sexual abuse canonical: https://time.com/4347243/north-korea-south-korea-human-rights-china-hyeonseo-lee/ author: Charlie Campbell article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2016-05-27T04:58:57.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-08-04T07:43:05.378Z article:section: World og:title: Freedom, Sanctions and North Korean Ice Cream og:description: Q&A with ‘The Girl With Seven Names’ author Hyeonseo Lee og:url: https://time.com/4347243/north-korea-south-korea-human-rights-china-hyeonseo-lee/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltbab937674f45c567/698895123c1639326045d6b6/gettyimages-482124252.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 1200 og:image:height: 675 og:image:alt: Hyeonseo Lee, on her escape from North Korea. og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: Freedom, Sanctions and North Korean Ice Cream twitter:description: Q&A with ‘The Girl With Seven Names’ author Hyeonseo Lee twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltbab937674f45c567/698895123c1639326045d6b6/gettyimages-482124252.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # Freedom, Sanctions and North Korean Ice Cream: Q&A With Defector Hyeonseo Lee > Sponsored content. 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Lee fled North Korea, and has written a book about her escape, and her return to North Korea to help her parents escape Hyeonseo Lee on July 13, 2015\. Lee fled North Korea, and has written a book about her escape, and her return to North Korea to help her parents escapeKeith Beaty—Toronto Star/Getty Images  by [Charlie Campbell / Seoul](https://time.com/author/charlie-campbell/)  ## Charlie Campbell / Seoul Editor at Large May 27, 2016 4:58 AM UTC Aged just 17, Hyeonseo Lee crossed the Yalu River from North Korea into China on a whim. After living secretly in China for 10 years, she finally made the journey to South Korea, but then returned in a daring bid to smuggle her family out of her impoverished homeland. She wrote her life story in [_The Girl With Seven Names_](https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Seven-Names-Korean-Defectors-ebook/dp/B00JD3ZL9U)_,_ which has been quoted at the U.N. Security Council, and in 2013 she gave a much fêted [TEDTalk](https://www.ted.com/talks/hyeonseo%5Flee%5Fmy%5Fescape%5Ffrom%5Fnorth%5Fkorea?language=en) about her experiences. Now living in Seoul, Lee is in the process of setting up an NGO to advocate for female North Korean defectors and refugees who are vulnerable to physical and sexual abuse. **You recently returned to China to** [**speak**](http://beijingbookworm.com/uncategorized/meet-an-author-hyeonseo-lee-north-korea-defector/) **at a literary festival about your experiences, were you scared for your safety?** I got a lot of warnings when I was going to Beijing. I was the first North Korean defector to return to China and speak publicly, because it’s really dangerous. The Chinese government doesn’t accept me as a South Korean citizen — \[all North Korean defectors automatically get South Korean citizenship\] — they still consider me a North Korean defector and they can catch and repatriate me. The \[South Korean\] National Intelligence Service did their best to persuade me not to go; they said that they couldn’t guarantee my safety. It took me six months to make a decision. **Read More:** [_Inside the Lives of Two Young North Korean Defectors_](http://time.com/4340884/north-korea-refugees/) I have given a lot of speeches all around the world but I thought China is the place I really have to go. I just went there and hoped that I was safe. I ended up hiding in the Beijing Airport bathroom \[at one point\] as I didn’t think I could come back or see my family again. **You lived in China secretly for 10 years. Did anyone know your real identity?** \[When I was living by the border,\] a Chinese person reported me to the police station, because every month there’s a \[sweep\] for North Korean defectors. My friend was repatriated in the middle of the night because of this. Somebody reported me but I was lucky as my Chinese was really good at the time and they couldn’t believe I was a defector. Soon after that I moved to Shanghai as I wanted to stay far away from the North Korean defector community \[by the border\]. I bought a Chinese ID card and completely transformed myself into real a Chinese person. I couldn’t trust anyone as maybe they would turn out to be an enemy and report me. The shocking thing is there was a girl who was my roommate for many years, and then in 2013 when I did my TEDTalk, she called me from Shanghai. She said, “I didn’t know you’re a North Korean defector,” and I was really embarrassed. But she said, “I understand that you had to do it.” I still felt very bad to have tricked my friend, but that’s the survival game. ### Inside the Lives of Two Young North Korean Defectors  North Korean refugee Kim Kyoung-ok arrived in Seoul as a 13 year old in 2009\. Here, she rides the bus home from school at 7:30 p.m. on March 4, 2015, in Seoul. Caitlin O'Hara  Kyoung-ok shows photographs on Feb. 1, 2015, that she brought with her on the 10-month journey from North Korea through China, Vietnam and Cambodia to South Korea. Other than a backpack full of food and a few clothes, these pictures were all that she and her mother brought with them when they left. Caitlin O'Hara  Donning matching shoes, North Korean refugees Kim Kyoung-ok, and Sarah walk arm-in-arm on their way to a Christian church service on Feb. 21, 2015 near Hapjeong, Seoul, South Korea. The women met shortly after they each arrived separately in South Korea at a resettlement camp for refugees. Caitlin O'Hara  Kyoung-ok and Sarah spend time on their phones after sharing takeout for dinner at Kyoung-ok's apartment on Feb. 28, 2015 in Mia, Seoul, South Korea. Caitlin O'Hara  Kyoung-ok receives news that a close friend and fellow young North Korean refugee is pregnant on March 10, 2015 in her apartment in Mia, Seoul, South Korea— a country that ostracizes unmarried mothers. The friend, who chose not to be identified for her safety, struggles has had a difficult time adjusting to life in South Korea. Caitlin O'Hara  Kyoung-ok and Sarah spend time at a norebang (singing room) on Feb. 4, 2015 near Yangjae, Seoul, South Korea. Caitlin O'Hara  Kyoung-ok smokes on her balcony on Feb. 28, 2015 in Mia, Seoul, South Korea. Caitlin O'Hara  Kyoung-ok looks receives a haircut and style in her aunt's salon in Seoul, South Korea. She is training to be a hair and nail designer and helps her aunt out when she can. In North Korea, there is little room for self-expression in hair styles, where acceptable styles are sanctioned. Caitlin O'Hara  Kyoung-ok plays pool with Christian King of Liberia, left, and Jerry Alexander of Canada, right, at Club Zion, a Jamaican bar, on March 19 in Itaewon, Seoul, South Korea. Kyoung-ok loves to visit Itaewon, which is a foreigner-heavy neighborhood, to meet people from different places and sample foreign food. Caitlin O'Hara  Kyoung-ok zips up Sarah's jacket during a night out Feb. 4, 2015 in Seoul, South Korea. The community of North Korean refugees is growing more tight knit with the help of social networks and human rights groups. Caitlin O'Hara **How serious is the brainwashing in North Korea?** When Kim Il Sung died in 1994, I was shocked — I never expected him to die. Because we truly believed he was a god, who didn’t smoke, drink alcohol or go to the bathroom, or \[have sex\] with women. Some people criticize North Koreans and ask, Are they stupid? How can they believe those ridiculous things? But I say, It doesn’t matter if you’re smart, if you were born in North Korea you would be exactly like us. We don’t know [what freedom is](http://time.com/4068794/north-korea-escape/). We have never enjoyed it. We don’t know what democracy is or capitalism. We are completely blocked. Not only from the outside world, but also domestically as it’s not easy to travel around inside North Korea unless you have a travel certificate from the regime. You only have one [TV channel](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Korean%5FCentral%5FTelevision) — it’s a propaganda channel. We believed that’s utopia because we cannot compare. **Read More:** [_Is It Time to Attack North Korea?_](http://time.com/4252372/north-korea-nuclear-missile-attack/) **Then why do so many North Koreans — currently estimated at 100,000–300,000 — flee into China?** Most of those who go to China are from the border region like me, because they see the people in China live a better life than us. I was very naive. The moment I escaped to China, I didn’t have any money, I only had one address in my hand, of some long-distance Chinese relatives. I didn’t know China was that big. I thought I can find their home very easily and I would come back one week later. But then I found out the address was a 10-hour drive away. I just wanted to see China with my own eyes. I wanted to see whether North Korea was the best country in the world or China was the best. I grew up believing that China was much worse than North Korea, because that’s what the regime told us. **What does freedom mean to you?** To me, realizing freedom, democracy is really difficult. I’m still learning every day, every minute. But when I was in China I realized this was freedom: watching Chinese TV without hiding the set and turning the volume right down. I could listen to South Korean songs very loudly \[which are banned in North Korea\]. And I could buy a bus ticket or train ticket on site and just go. And the amount of ice cream! I was shocked. In North Korea we only have one type and it tastes like water. To me, sitting here drinking coffee with a blue sky is really freedom. It makes me feel really happy. I feel all these little things are really precious. **Do you miss North Korea?** North Korea is not the dictator’s country; it’s 25 million citizens’ country, and they are suffering under the dictator. North Koreans are really nice, kind, pure people. I hate the dictator and the regime, but I love my home country. I know that I can’t go back there. Even though the country is very dark — it’s like a disaster — it’s my home. Every night I go back there in my dreams. **In March, the U.N. increased sanctions on North Korea. Was this the right move?** I strongly agree with the [sanctions](http://www.nytimes.com/2016/03/03/world/asia/north-korea-un-sanctions.html). The U.N. and State Department now have the strongest sanctions ever, and I say it should have been earlier, and I told that to \[U.S. Ambassador to the U.N.\] Samantha Power in New York. People worry that the sanctions will hurt North Korean citizens but won’t hurt the high-ranking people. But that is absolutely not true. The regime provides nothing to ordinary citizens. Nothing. They don’t rely on the regime for any public distribution system. People rely on themselves with the market system. So the sanctions affect the regime and those earning foreign currency for the regime. **Read More:** [_The Detention of a U.S. Student in North Korea Underscores the Risks of Traveling There_](http://time.com/4192050/north-korea-kim-jong-un-otto-frederick-warmbier-human-rights/) **But some people argue its better to engage the regime and have dialogue?** People who \[advocate\] engagement don’t understand the regime or the Kim family — they are evil and they are smart. That’s the reason they don’t open their economy. If you engage with them you will just make them stronger and the regime will last longer. **Why are you starting your NGO now?** It’s called North Korean Women and it’s for female North Koreans living inside North Korea, in China, in South Korea and the world. Life as a North Korean defector is really painful. Women are sold as sex slaves to human traffickers or Chinese men. They are being tortured, are suffering, with no payment, but the sad thing is that even a 20- or 30-year-old North Korean woman being a sex slave or being sold as human merchandise to an old Chinese farmer prefers that situation to being repatriated to North Korea. It’s another hell to live in North Korea. My long-term goal is the help North Korean people in China communicate with the Chinese people in a safe situation. So if Chinese people tell the Chinese government that they care about these issues then maybe the Chinese government will change in the end. Because the mainland people in China don’t know anything about this issue. ### A Border With a View: Watching North Korea From the Outside  South Korean tourists point in Hunchun, China, point toward North Korea across the Tumen River. The Russian border lies to their left. Albert Bonsfills  The Sino-Korean Friendship Bridge spans the Yalu River, connecting the cities of Dandong, China, and Sinuiju, North Korea. Albert Bonsfills  A North Korean performer at a traditional musical show in a North Korean restaurant near Tumen, China. Albert Bonsfills  North Korean restaurants, like this one in Yanji, China are lucrative businesses for the North Korean government and offer a window into North Korean culture for visitors. Albert Bonsfills  A piece of clothing covered with sand just a few feet from the North Korean border fence next to Hunchun, China. If defectors are caught in China, they are repatriated back to North Korea to face harsh interrogations and years of punishment, or even death in political prison camps or reeducation camps. Albert Bonsfills  A man observes a diorama in China’s only Korean War museum in Dandong, China. The Chinese People’s Liberation Army entered Korea to fight against the United States involvement when the Korean War broke out in 1950\. Dandong, a frontier town, experienced first-hand the horrors of war. Albert Bonsfills  A cave near the Yalu River in the expanding city of Dandong. Caves are used by defectors fleeing from North Korea to hide. Albert Bonsfills  Security cameras in Dandong, China keep watch over a narrow stretch of the Yalu River that is sometimes crossed by North Korean defectors. Albert Bonsfills  Downtown Yanji, the Chinese city with the largest concentration of ethnic Koreans in China, and a busy trade hub between China and North Korea. Albert Bonsfills  A view of the Tumen river, which forms a natural border between between China and North Korea, and offers a common route for North Koreans trying to escape. Albert Bonsfills  A woman in Dandong, China covers her face with a piece of cloth to protect from mosquitos. In China's border cities, there is a normality to daily life which stands in contrast to the deprivation across the border. Albert Bonsfills  A newly married couple poses with white pigeons for a photo shoot in Dandong, China. Dandong is situated on the banks of the Yalu River, a short distance from North Korea. Albert Bonsfills  A border fence near Hunchun, China that separates China and North Korea. Albert Bonsfills  A farm situated next to a thermal power plant close to the North Korean border in Tumen, China. Albert Bonsfills  Chinese soldiers train in the mountains outside Hunchun and near the North Korean border. Tensions have grown between the countries. Albert Bonsfills  A view of the Tumen river which separates Tumen, China from Namyang, Onsong county, North Korea, at left. Tumen has a very large population of ethnic Koreans, and a detention center for captured North Koreans awaiting deportation. Albert Bonsfills  A bride adjusts her veil near Jian, China, about 1 km away from the North Korean border. Albert Bonsfills  A man places a red flag at the river bank across from north korea border in Dandong, China. Albert Bonsfills **Why do so many North Korean defectors struggle to adjust to life in South Korea?** It’s really sad. Defectors have a lot of issues at the moment, committing [suicide](http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-34710403), and even [going back](https://www.nknews.org/2012/11/why-do-people-keep-re-defecting-to-north-korea/) \[to the North\]. It’s hard to compete with our South Korean counterparts, because here, the people are highly educated, and grow up with democracy their whole lives. But defectors come from a completely different system — it’s like hell to heaven. But also \[South Korean\] society has prejudice. Our perspective is that we were divided for seven decades so we are brothers and sisters. But in reality, when we arrived here we are completely forgotten people from the South Korean perspective, and we are a burden for them. **Are things improving?** I arrived in \[South Korea\] in 2008 and was received like an alien. But things are getting better. Me and other defectors are willing to tell our stories without hiding our faces. Before they considered us along with the dictators, like we are all ridiculous human beings, but right now some South Koreans are crying with us because they realize we came here not for a vacation but we left behind everything and suffered enormously, and they have sympathy. There are some people helping North Korean students in South Korea in terms of scholarships and funding. So there’s positive change also. **Read More:** [_A Border With a View: Watching North Korea From the Outside_](http://time.com/4234658/a-border-with-a-view-watching-north-korea-from-the-outside/) I gave a speech last week in New Zealand, and there was a South Korean exchange student in the audience. She came to me afterwards and said, “Can I hug you? I didn’t know. Even though I was living in South Korea my whole life I had never heard this real story of North Korean people.” I thought that South Koreans basically knew what is going on but now I think they don’t know. People need to understand that we are the same people and need to raise awareness of unification. **Will the Korean peninsula ever be reunited?** I’m sad that \[many South Koreans\] don’t want unification, they want to be completely separate. The older generation feel connected somehow to North Korea so they want unification. After they die the new generation doesn’t even know when the Korean War happened. For them it’s completely \[ancient\] history. If we don’t have unification within 20 years, it will be like we became completely two different countries. That’s why I’m scared right now. But who knows? 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