--- title: How to Talk to Your Kids About Political Campaigns description: Or, at least, about what they're supposed to be like canonical: https://time.com/4249691/how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-political-campaigns/ author: Carey Wallace article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2016-03-07T16:43:08.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-04-13T08:57:38.959Z og:title: How to Talk to Your Kids About Political Campaigns og:description: “Politics conversations are polite conversations. That’s rule No. 1.” og:url: https://time.com/4249691/how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-political-campaigns/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt773001ec6f6b7e37/698880800a4a2218559c8b3d/gettyimages-5127748141.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 1200 og:image:height: 675 og:image:alt: US-VOTE-REPUBLICAN-TRUMP-politics-election og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: How to Talk to Your Kids About Political Campaigns twitter:description: “Politics conversations are polite conversations. That’s rule No. 1.” twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt773001ec6f6b7e37/698880800a4a2218559c8b3d/gettyimages-5127748141.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # How to Talk to Your Kids About Political Campaigns  by [Carey Wallace](https://time.com/author/carey-wallace/)  ## Carey Wallace Mar 7, 2016 4:43 PM UTC  A young girl looks on as Republican Presidential candidate Donald Trump signs autographs at a rally on Feb. 27, in Millington, Tennesse. A young girl looks on as Republican Presidential candidate Donald Trump signs autographs at a rally on Feb. 27, in Millington, Tennesse.MICHAEL B. THOMAS/AFP/Getty Images  by [Carey Wallace](https://time.com/author/carey-wallace/)  ## Carey Wallace Mar 7, 2016 4:43 PM UTC What with the name-calling and the finger-pointing, a lot of adults are bewildered by the wild swings of this year’s presidential primaries. But how does it affect kids? And how can parents start worthwhile conversations with them about what’s going on in politics? Parents may not think **_elementary age_** kids care much about politics, says Lynn Vavreck, professor of political science and communications at UCLA. But in fact, in elementary school classes, “kids parrot back everything” parents say. So setting the right tone from a young age is important, Vavreck says. “Politics conversations are polite conversations. That’s rule No. 1.” Kids may also have deep emotional responses to political conversations, like hearing that a candidate will be bad for women, or get the country into a war. Parents can help by asking kids what they’ve heard about the election, and talking through their reactions. By **_middle school_**_,_ Vavreck says, parents can start having conversations with kids about political identity: why family members consider themselves part of one party or another, and what issues are important to them. And by asking kids what they think, which lets kids know two key things: it’s important to think through political decisions, and it’s O.K. to come to your own conclusions. Read More: [How to Spark Kids’ Interest in Civil Rights ](http://time.com/4242269/how-to-spark-kids-interest-in-civil-rights/) **_High school_**kids_,_ who are only a few years away from voting themselves, can start to really engage with the details of an election, says Vavreck, “knowing the candidates, how they’re different.” Kids may form different opinions than parents around this age, she says – or hold similar positions, but for different reasons. But for parents, the goal is to keep kids engaged, both with the political process, and in conversation. At any age, Vavreck says, it’s crucial to remember what we agree on: “Other people have other experiences or other ideas,” she says. 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