--- title: How to Talk to Your Kids About Why We Eat Meat to Celebrate description: A food historian gives families some ways of talking about why humans eat meat to celebrate canonical: https://time.com/4124551/how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-that-thanksgiving-bird/ author: Carey Wallace article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2015-11-23T18:44:51.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-04-13T08:57:32.313Z og:title: How to Talk to Your Kids About Why We Eat Meat to Celebrate og:description: A food historian helps families talk about what meat means to humans og:url: https://time.com/4124551/how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-that-thanksgiving-bird/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt40cec6e1716571ae/69887271428a9e44f8cd040d/thanksgiving-feast.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 5116 og:image:height: 2878 og:image:alt: 508480687 og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: How to Talk to Your Kids About Why We Eat Meat to Celebrate twitter:description: A food historian helps families talk about what meat means to humans twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt40cec6e1716571ae/69887271428a9e44f8cd040d/thanksgiving-feast.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # How to Talk to Your Kids About that Thanksgiving Bird > Sponsored content. 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With Thanksgiving around the corner, and perhaps big meal preparations underway, kids may have some questions about why we celebrate how we do. Or it might be a good time to get them thinking about it. “Large animals on the table,” says Amy Bentley, food historian at New York University, have been part of the way people celebrate holiday feasts “for millennia.” [After all those kids’ books, parents need to something interesting to read. Sign up here for TIME’s weekly parenting newsletter. ](http://time.com/t4parents) And meat wasn’t just a way to celebrate. It may have even shaped human nature. “Some people argue we have the big brains and intelligence that we do in part because of protein that came from meat eating,” says Bentley. But eating animals can also be “a fraught topic,” Bentley says. To start with, she observes, “we are meat.” So some have ethical concerns about eating other animals. Others have practical concerns about the way the meat industry affects the environment. And kids in particular, Bentley says, are “especially responsive to these issues.” So how can parents start good conversations with kids about meat? **_Elementary age kids_** can guide the conversation with their own questions, Bentley says, and “Parents shouldn’t be afraid to answer them.” According to Bentley, even simple questions like “Why do we eat this way? Why don’t we eat bacon?” can “get to core values of who we are as a family, what culture and religious traditions we belong to.” **_Middle school kids_** are ready for a bit more complexity, and Bentley suggests that it’s a good time for parents to share their personal opinions on meat. Like the tension between the high cost of pasture-raised meat, and a limited budget. Or the fact that they eat meat, but aren’t totally comfortable with factory farming. It’s O.K, Bentley says, for parents to admit that they haven’t really come to a solution yet. The important thing is “for kids to begin to think there are different kinds of good – not necessarily one right or wrong answer for everybody.” **_High school kids_** can start to take a broader perspective. Bentley points out that Americans have far more choice about food than many other people. “Eliminating entire categories of food would be unthinkable in other countries,” she says. “Or laughable.” Having this perspective can encourage gratitude in kids—and give them some important perspective when they start to make their own choices about food. At all ages, Bentley says, it’s important to remember that food isn’t just about ethics or nutrition. “Food is beautiful, delicious, and nourishes our body and our souls. And family dinners are sacred. 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