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# How to Get People to Be More Honest With You


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## Eric Barker


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Oct 9, 2015 4:01 AM CUT

![TIME.com stock photos Computer Hack](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt826941b43f76731d/69877887524fc00de2debc04/computer-hack-2.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=3:2)

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Might want to Skype more often.

People lie more often via text message. We’re more honest via video than we are in the other mediums tested — including in face to face.

Via [Science Daily](http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/01/120125131120.htm "undefined"):

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