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# Jessica Simpson Says Her First Marriage to Nick Lachey Was the 'Biggest Money Mistake'

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## Mariah Haas / People


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![Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey at MTV Bash - Backstage and Audience in Hollywood on June 28, 2003.](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt0dc7dece7b599d1e/69886333e20a87279ea8d2de/jessica-simpson-nick-lachey.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=3:2)

Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey at MTV Bash - Backstage and Audience in Hollywood on June 28, 2003.

Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey at MTV Bash - Backstage and Audience in Hollywood on June 28, 2003. Jeff Kravitz—FilmMagic/Getty Images

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## Mariah Haas / People


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Sep 11, 2015 1:43 PM UTC

Nearly a decade after [Jessica Simpson](http://www.people.com/people/jessica%5Fsimpson) and ex-husband [Nick Lachey](http://www.people.com/people/nick%5Flachey) [split](http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,1053559,00.html), the fashion mogul is calling their three-year marriage a financial mistake.

“The biggest money mistakes? I don’t know. For some reason I thought of my first marriage,” Simpson said with a laugh when asked what were some of her biggest money mistakes – personal or business – that has helped her grow, during an appearance on [CNBC’s _Closing Bell_](http://video.cnbc.com/gallery/?video=3000419507) on Thursday.

Host Kelly Evans replied, “That’s actually a common answer believe it or not.”

Since the pair called it quits, Simpson, 35, went on to have two children –[daughter Maxwell Drew](http://celebritybabies.people.com/2015/09/09/jessica-simpson-daughter-heels-horseback-riding-tonight-show/), 3, and [son Ace Knute](http://celebritybabies.people.com/2015/07/01/jessica-simpson-son-ace-turns-two-birthday-photos/), 2 – with [husband Eric Johnson](http://www.people.com/article/jessica-simpson-married-eric-johnson-favorite-wedding-moments-photos).

Meanwhile, Lachey, 41, has two children – son [Camden John](http://celebritybabies.people.com/2014/09/17/nick-vanessa-lachey-birthday-party-son-camden/), 2, and [daughter Brooklyn Elisabeth](http://celebritybabies.people.com/2015/04/18/vanessa-nick-lachey-daughter-brooklyn-first-photo/), 8 months – with [wife Vanessa Lachey](http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20510637,00.html).

In November, [Lachey admitted](http://www.people.com/article/nick-lachey-glad-no-kids-jessica-simpson) it was “probably the best thing” that the former couple – whose lives at the time were also chronicled on their reality series _Newlyweds: Nick and Jessica_ – didn’t have kids together.

“There’s just no contact. We’ve both moved on with our lives, and I think we are very happy it went the way it went. It’s not animosity, it’s not friendship – it’s just kind of nothing,” Lachey explained on [_Dirty, Sexy, Funny with Jenny McCarthy_](https://soundcloud.com/siriusxmentertainment/nick-lachey-its-good-i-didnt-have-kids-with-jessica-simpson?in=siriusxmentertainment/sets/dirty-sexy-funny) on SiriusXM.

As for where Simpson sees herself in the next five to ten years?

“I always say I’m ready for another billion,” Simpson – whose clothing line, the Jessica Simpson Collection, [is currently worth](http://stylenews.peoplestylewatch.com/2015/04/03/jessica-simpson-collection-makes-one-billion-dollars-annually/) a cool $ 1 billion – shared.


_This_ [_article_](http://www.people.com/article/jessica-simpson-calls-ex-husband-nick-lachey-biggest-money-mistake) _originally appeared on_ [_People.com_](http://www.people.com)

### LIFE With Brigitte Bardot: Rare and Classic Photos of the Original 'Sex Kitten'

![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltb6294a75f8a39f16/6987778135ba6f3c42c063ad/141230-brigitte-bardot-01.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot on set with actor Michel Roux, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt18bde5f2dc64c5c3/6987778155a8597034a85012/141230-brigitte-bardot-02.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot on location in Spain in 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltc6db48f6e3fcf1de/698777828e0601346f45975b/141230-brigitte-bardot-03.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot photographed at the time she was making the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images


![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt413a9b5e1888e6bc/69877782e53aba5fe44d6c66/141230-brigitte-bardot-04.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot photographed at the time she was making the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltcfac4e51b7555c95/69877782428a9e20eccc652a/141230-brigitte-bardot-05.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot on location for the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt641ee3fee56b8da3/69877783a988ca76996aba29/141230-brigitte-bardot-06.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

French actress Brigitte Bardot photographed at the time she was making the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images


![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltc9e8ad22fe78d5e9/69877783cd1bbac4566f4675/141230-brigitte-bardot-07.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

French actress Brigitte Bardot photographed at the time she was making the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt779c997b0b3cf345/6987778355a8596abba85017/141230-brigitte-bardot-08.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot photographed at the time she was making the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt2879ec837495e21c/6987778406f2c12e62333205/141230-brigitte-bardot-09.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot photographed at the time she was making the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images


![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt66563db197db941c/6987778455a8591b11a8501f/141230-brigitte-bardot-10.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot plays the guitar while on the set of the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltbec6ef8f286dec27/6987778455a8596dbfa8501b/141230-brigitte-bardot-11.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot (center) on the set of the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt3ddfb9168b6a7c10/698777855f570f02f0b14747/141230-brigitte-bardot-12.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot on the set of the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images


![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt8b86a14464e7dcc6/69877785cd1bba43156f4679/141230-brigitte-bardot-13.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot on the set of the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltae6dfeb0d8ded6fa/69877785f887dc3f4ae8941f/141230-brigitte-bardot-14.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot checks her hair and makeup on the set of the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt7b067f5cf294b2c8/698777865f570f9b7cb1474c/141230-brigitte-bardot-15.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot (holding a copy of LIFE magazine) looks at a photographic slide on the set of the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images


![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt499ada3868b285d2/69877786428a9e7f62cc6533/141230-brigitte-bardot-16.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot on the set of the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt0ea0c19887b99de1/698777868e0601f231459769/141230-brigitte-bardot-17.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot photographed between takes on the set of the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blte03884fbdd1fbe31/6987778755a8599ee4a85024/141230-brigitte-bardot-18.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot with co-star Antonio Vilar on the set of the film, La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images


![Brigitte Bardot 1958](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blteb390f6d48aea690/6987778706f2c152be33320e/141230-brigitte-bardot-19.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Caption from LIFE. Sooner or later in most of her films, Bardot is seen lounging on a bed ... Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

![01020849.JPG](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt92a827d92d219a3a/698777872dce0186e29dcb31/141230-brigitte-bardot-20.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp)

Brigitte Bardot during break on location filming of La Femme et le Pantin, Spain, 1958. Loomis Dean—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images


## Transcript

[00:00] I
[00:03] saw a headline the other day that said something like
[00:05] Woman Sleeps with Twelve Strangers in a Year and is
[00:09] Shocked, Shocked Shocked, When She Divorced. No, I
[00:12] was not shocked. Who, nobody would be shocked.
[00:13] Good girl seeks experience. I'm
[00:17] a 44 year old professional, educated, attractive
[00:21] woman in an open marriage seeking single men age
[00:25] 35 to 50 to help me explore my sexuality. You must
[00:29] be trustworthy, smart and skilled at conversation as
[00:32] well as in bed. We will first meet in public for coffee or
[00:35] a drink. If that goes well, we'll have dinner. Possibly
[00:37] followed by sex. Our time together will be limited to
[00:41] three dates. As I cannot become seriously involved.
[00:45] When you think about it. A lot of people do this. They
[00:48] don't move out and set up rules and have an open
[00:53] marriage and apart time separation. They just have
[00:56] affairs. I was living in San
[01:00] Francisco. I was in my early 40s. My
[01:04] husband and I hit a marital crisis where I wanted
[01:08] to have children, and he didn't. And he ended up
[01:12] saying that he wanted to get a vasectomy. And at that
[01:14] point, I thought, what do I need to do now before. My
[01:18] life is over if I'm not gonna have children. That's when I
[01:22] realized I really needed to sow the oats I'd never done
[01:26] in my youth and needed a little time off from my
[01:28] marriage to do that if we weren't gonna be having a
[01:31] family. It was the fact that I was gonna let them get
[01:33] away scot- free. After three dates. The
[01:38] three basic rules were safe sex, no mutual
[01:41] acquaintances and, no long term serious
[01:45] relationships. We both ended up breaking two
[01:49] of those rules over the course of the year. I wanted
[01:51] their smells, their stomachs, their grasping hands and
[01:52] hungry mouths. The more maleness I had,
[01:57] the more female I could be. I sought it out despite the
[02:01] warnings of concerned friends, the obvious pain I was
[02:04] causing my husband, the moral code and defining
[02:07] boundaries of the self I'd known for 44 years. Come
[02:11] what may, I would be ravished and then they could All I
[02:17] can say is that it was unlike me to act that way. I'd
[02:20] always been a very cautious and even anxious person.
[02:23] It was something instinctual and something
[02:28] very female driving me. It wasn't really planned
[02:33] and strategized as much as felt. Kind of a
[02:37] calling that I just needed some time to
[02:41] explore this before I went forward in my life. People
[02:45] would tell me this is so brave, and I didn't, I didn't feel
[02:49] brave. I, but I felt I was acting on instinct. [ MUSIC ]
[02:54] Okay.
[02:56] So, Angie. Angie. In that time. I met
[03:01] several people had experience with several
[03:05] people learned not just about other people but about
[03:09] my self. Via these sexual experiences.
[03:13] And I also learned more about my marriage. Expecting
[03:18] your spouse to provide passion and security and
[03:22] purpose. It's a lot. Going through this process gave
[03:26] me all this experience that kind of turned into
[03:30] this awareness and this wisdom that, wow I was asking
[03:34] too much. And so now as a result I don't look
[03:38] to someone else. To, you know, kind if unfairly provide
[03:43] all of those things. And I couldn't have learned it. I
[03:46] don't think unless I actually went through it. [ MUSIC ]

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