--- description: An Australian couple penned an op-ed for a local magazine vowing to divorce if the country legalizes same-sex marriage. title: Couple Says They'll Divorce If Gay Marriage Is Legalized image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltde093bcdab65f2d0/6988d9b9bc6cfc69913e2a3c/time-logo.jpg?branch=production --- * [World](/section/world/) ## World Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close * [LGBT](/tag/lgbt/) ## LGBT Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close # Australian Couple Vows to Divorce If Gay Marriage Legalized ## Video: A Look Back At The Fight for Marriage Equality [Watch (HLS stream): A Look Back At The Fight for Marriage Equality](https://cdn.jwplayer.com/manifests/xKfWFohM.m3u8) (2:16)  _Published 2013-11-20. As the first state to legalize same-sex marriage, Massachusetts had a strong impact on the movement for marriage equality._  by [Tessa Berenson](/author/tessa-berenson/)  ## Tessa Berenson Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Jun 11, 2015 3:03 PM CUT  by [Tessa Berenson](/author/tessa-berenson/)  ## Tessa Berenson Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Jun 11, 2015 3:03 PM CUT An Australian couple has vowed to divorce “as a matter of conscience” if the country legalizes same-sex marriage. In an [op-ed](http://citynews.com.au/2015/gay-law-change-may-force-us-to-divorce/ "undefined") in the Canberra City _News_, Nick Jensen wrote that he and his wife Sarah “refuse to recognize the government’s regulation of marriage if its definition includes the solemnization of same sex couples.” He said that he and his wife would not split up, and would continue to live together and refer to each other as husband and wife. But, he explains, “by changing the definition of marriage, ‘marriage’ will, in years to come, have an altogether different sense and purpose. It will not be about the mystery of difference in sexual unity, as children come from gendered dissimilarity. It will not be about building and securing communities into the future… If this is no longer the case, then we no longer wish to be associated with this new definition.” The piece incited angry backlash on social media after its publication Wednesday, directed at both the couple and the publication that printed their op-ed. The magazine’s editor, Ian Meikle, [defended publishing the story to news.com.au](http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/nick-jensen-threatens-to-divorce-in-protest-of-gay-marriage-in-canberra-citynews-article/story-fnet09p2-1227391644573 "undefined"), clarifying that “the article does not reflect the opinion of the paper” but that he “decided it was a serious enough argument to genuinely warrant some attention.” The Australian Parliament is scheduled to vote on a marriage equality bill introduced by the opposition Labor Party by the end of the year. 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