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Our Parents’ Wedding Was in LIFE! (and Here Are Photos to Prove It)

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A few weeks back, LIFE received an email from a woman in Arizona, mentioning that relatives of hers had appeared in some pictures in LIFE magazine many years ago, and asking if there was any way to perhaps get copies of the few photos from that long-ago issue. This request, in and of itself, was not unusual: people frequently contact LIFE to ask if they might buy old copies of the magazine in which they, or someone they knew, once appeared. (The answer, by the way, is yes — but not from us. One can always find old issues at flea markets, garage sales and, of course, online, via eBay and other sites.)

What made this particular correspondence stand out, however, was that the photographs in question were made by William Vandivert — one of LIFE’s most celebrated photographers, who would go on to do extraordinary work during World War II; that the article in which the pictures appeared was an early installment of a popular, long-running series in the old magazine, “Life Goes to a ______” (a prom; a college joust; a school for Santas; you name it); and that the event portrayed was, as LIFE put it, “a Polish wedding with all the trimmings” on Chicago’s South Side. The email came from Mrs. Karen Watt — born Karen Krzystofczyk — and the bride and groom in that June 21, 1937, issue of LIFE were none other than her own mom and dad, Irene Kaluza and Boleslaus “Benny” Krzystofczyk.

Taking all of those points into consideration, we decided that we would not only republish some of the wedding photos that ran in LIFE more than three-quarters of a century ago, but we’d also post a few of Vandivert’s pictures that didn’t appear in the original story.

Karen Watt and her brother, Andy, were kind enough to supply LIFE.com with some information about their parents’ life together. Here are some highlights:

Irene and Benny lived in Illinois until the early 1960s, before moving their family to California (it was “love at first sight” with the Golden State during a family vacation in 1960) and, finally, to Arizona. They had eight children: Helen, Robert, Ron, Theresa, Elaine, George, Karen and Andy. All of their kids are still around (with the exception of Robert, who died in 2011, at the age of 72) — as are 23 grandchildren and 25 great-grandchildren.

Ben retired from the brokerage and securities firm Shearson Hayden Stone in the late 1970s, and both he and Irene — who had also worked for a good part of her early adult life, before taking on the colossal job of raising eight kids — enjoyed their retirement “babysitting their grandkids,” Karen says, “and escaping the summer heat in a cabin among the cool pines of Flagstaff, Arizona.”

Finally, Karen told LIFE.com that Irene “is now 98 years old. She still lives in the Phoenix home she shared with Ben, along with a daughter and a son-in-law. During the day she plays games on the computer, she plays Scrabble in the evening and joins the seniors at her church for a weekly Bingo game.”

When Karen and her siblings got together recently to show their mom this gallery, “everyone had a great time viewing the photos from the wedding,” she told LIFE.com. “My mom was very touched to see them. Her eyes did well up with tears, and she just kept staring at the photos over and over as I cycled through them — several times.”

And to think that William Vandivert was there with his camera at the very beginning of Irene’s and Ben’s long, winding journey together. It makes one wonder: What other family stories out there saw their beginnings — or their middles, or their ends — in the pages of LIFE?

Do you have a story you’d like to share about family or friends — or about you — appearing in LIFE? Post it in the comments below.


LIFE goes to a party at Cicero, Ill., where Boleslaus Krystofczyk marries Irene Kaluza in a Polish ceremony at the Catholic Church of the Five Holy Martyrs.
Caption from LIFE. "LIFE goes to a party at Cicero, Ill., where Boleslaus Krystofczyk marries Irene Kaluza in a Polish ceremony at the Catholic Church of the Five Holy Martyrs."William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Bride Irene Kaluza 1937
Not published in LIFE. Irene Kaluza on her wedding day, June 1937.William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Not published in LIFE. Photo made on Irene Kaluza's and Boleslaus Krzystofczyk's wedding day, June 1937.William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Caption from LIFE. "The bride's veil, part of a $110 wedding costume, is here adjusted by bridesmaid Florence Kosinski before church."William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Caption from LIFE. "Mass on their wedding day was celebrated by Benny Kriz [according to LIFE, his employer's nickname for Boleslaus] and Irene Kaluza like most good Catholics."William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Caption from LIFE. "Ringbearer John Hodkiewicz Jr., 6, and flower girl Bernice Gordon, 5. Someone forgot to bring Bernice to church."William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Not published in LIFE. Photo made on Irene Kaluza's and Boleslaus Krzystofczyk's wedding day, June 1937.William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Photo made on Irene Kaluza's and Boleslaus Krzystofczyk's wedding day, June 1937.William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Not published in LIFE. Photo made on Irene Kaluza's and Boleslaus Krzystofczyk's wedding day, June 1937.William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Photo made on Irene Kaluza's and Boleslaus Krzystofczyk's wedding day, June 1937.William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Caption from LIFE. "Chicken is relished by the bride while Benny enjoys a Polish witticism. Altogether the 300 celebrants of the wedding consumed 120 chickens and 60 pounds of veal."William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Not published in LIFE. Photo made on Irene Kaluza's and Boleslaus Krzystofczyk's wedding day, June 1937.William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Caption from LIFE. "Beer at the bridal breakfast in Irene's home is thoroughly enjoyed by the groom who ordered seven barrels so as to be sure there would be enough for everyone."William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Not published in LIFE. Photo made on Irene Kaluza's and Boleslaus Krzystofczyk's wedding day, June 1937.William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Not published in LIFE. Photo made on Irene Kaluza's and Boleslaus Krzystofczyk's wedding day, June 1937.William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Not published in LIFE. Photo made on Irene Kaluza's and Boleslaus Krzystofczyk's wedding day, June 1937.William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Not published in LIFE. Photo made on Irene Kaluza's and Boleslaus Krzystofczyk's wedding day, June 1937.William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Caption from LIFE. "This three-foot wedding cake embellished the table of the bride and groom at the reception dinner given in the evening at the Hawthorne Park District Community Hall. The cake cost Benny $25, rental of hall $35. As befits a man who works in a brokerage office, he shouldered all expenses, which came to more than $750."William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Caption from LIFE. "Removal of the bride's shoes after the bridal unveiling, to be used in collecting money towards a cradle for the newlyweds, is a timeworn Polish wedding custom."William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images
Photos from a Polish wedding in Illinois, 1937
Caption from LIFE. "A smacking kiss greets Irene as she starts the bridal dance with Benny. Note the sign on the wall at upper right for benefit of gum chewers." [Sign reads: Don't throw your gum on the floors.]William Vandivert—The LIFE Picture Collection/Getty Images

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