--- title: Mother's Day Gifts: Men Are Right to Be Terrified description: The holiday isn't just for mothers anymore. canonical: https://time.com/3851024/mothers-day-husbands/ author: Marina Adshade article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2015-05-08T11:00:14.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-02-22T07:02:15.025Z article:section: Ideas og:title: Men Are Right to Be Terrified About Mother's Day og:description: The holiday isn't just for mothers anymore og:url: https://time.com/3851024/mothers-day-husbands/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt0adad456b88c3618/6987eedc0b72e30a516e1f2c/mothers-day.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 3456 og:image:height: 1944 og:image:alt: Mother's Day og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: Men Are Right to Be Terrified About Mother's Day twitter:description: The holiday isn't just for mothers anymore twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt0adad456b88c3618/6987eedc0b72e30a516e1f2c/mothers-day.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # Men Are Right to Be Terrified About Mother's Day > Sponsored content. 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That disappointment might seem reasonable given the way the holiday has evolved over the past century to one that is less about mothers and more about women in general. The original purpose of Mother’s Day, first proposed by Anna Marie Jarvis in 1907, was for children to take the time to express appreciation to their mothers. Jarvis envisaged a simple tradition in which each child hand-wrote a note to their mother thanking her for all that she had done throughout the year. President Woodrow Wilson declared the day a national holiday in 1914, and from that point on, [as far as Jarvis was concerned](http://time.com/3850790/anna-jarvis-mothers-day-origin/), it went downhill. The holiday became widely commercialized in the early 1920s when handwritten thank-you notes were replaced with purchased cards, flowers, and gifts. There was money to be made on Mother’s Day, and, while the initial sentiment was still there, the holiday has a very long history of being shaped by economic profit. According to the [National Retail Federation](https://nrf.com/sites/default/files/Mother's%20Day%202015%20press.pdf), Americans are planning on spending a record-setting more than [$21 billion](https://nrf.com/media/press-releases/families-spending-more-ever-mom-according-nrf-survey) for Mother’s Day this year. That’s an average spending of about $215 for each man and $133 for each woman who participate in the holiday. That might seem like a lot to spend on Mom, but the truth is that much of that money is spent on people in entirely different types of relationships. Not only are daughters, sisters, grandmothers, and Godmothers all the recipients of Mother’s Day gift-giving, but, remarkably, about 14% of women and about 5% of men plan to buy presents for other relatives, and about 8% of women and 5% of men plan to buy presents for friends. Of those men spending on Mother’s Day only about 60% plan on buying gifts for their actual mother. About 46% of men spending plan to buy gifts for their wives. That share might not seem particularly high, except that according to the U.S. Census about half of men in this group are married, which means that it’s likely the majority of married men are planning to buy gifts for their wives this Mother’s Day. So maybe there is reason to sympathize with Camille, given how many men express their appreciation to the women who are helping to raise their children on this day. Except for one thing: Camille and her husband have no children. She is not a mother, and her expectation for special treatment on Mother’s Day was based solely on her status as a wife and future mother of his children. In the U.K., the equivalent holiday to Mother’s Day, which is celebrated in March, is called “Mothering Sunday.” Perhaps that would be a better name for the North American holiday as well. In terms of having a tradition in which children express gratitude to the women who do so much for them, we seem to have completely lost the plot. More and more, we are celebrating the different kinds of mothering that so many women do: the mothering of their husbands, the mothering of their brothers, the mothering of their friends, and, even the mothering of their pets. Of course, women have always done these things. 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