--- description: The 2015 TIME 100 honoree toasted his mother, Clara, at the gala in April. What follows is the text of his speech title: Lee Daniels: 'My Mother Knew I Had to Get Out of the Ghetto' image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt544139d6c785f747/6987ee9fcd684847a809de90/lee-daniels.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  * [Ideas](/section/ideas/) ## Ideas Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close * [TIME 100](/tag/time-100/) ## TIME 100 Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close # Lee Daniels: 'My Mother Knew I Had to Get Out of the Ghetto' ## Video: Lee Daniels on the Women Who Changed His Life [Watch (HLS stream): Lee Daniels on the Women Who Changed His Life](https://cdn.jwplayer.com/manifests/DUbV2mi7.m3u8) (2:37)  _Published 2015-04-16. “I never saw myself as a filmmaker because I didn’t know there were African American filmmakers, so I never really had anyone to look up to, because there weren’t any really,” says Daniels, a filmmaker and creator of the TV series Empire._ by [TIME Staff](/author/time-staff/) ## TIME Staff Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close May 7, 2015 7:00 AM CUT  Lee Daniels attends the 2015 TIME 100 Gala cocktail reception, to celebrate the 100 most influential people in the world, at the Frederick P. Rose Hall, Time Warner Center on April 21, 2015, in New York. Lee Daniels attends the 2015 TIME 100 Gala cocktail reception, to celebrate the 100 most influential people in the world, at the Frederick P. Rose Hall, Time Warner Center on April 21, 2015, in New York.Amy Sussman—Invision/AP by [TIME Staff](/author/time-staff/) ## TIME Staff Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close May 7, 2015 7:00 AM CUT I stand before you a very humble man — a very nervous man. I’ve been to many award shows, but this place is on another level. I think about my kid, my son. I have twins that I didn’t want to have the life that I had. I didn’t have a great life growing up. I had my mom, who’s here tonight. But it wasn’t a great life. And so I wanted my kids to have the life that I didn’t have, as all parents do. I wonder now… My son says I don’t have enough time for him. My mom had five kids. And she came home after working three jobs, and I’d rub her feet. We’d all rub her feet. We were lucky to get any time with her. My mom knew early on that I was gay, and she knew that I had to get out of the ghetto. And so she hit up my next door neighbor, who was a butler — hence _The Butler._ And he was the butler for Ed Snyder, who was the owner of the Philadelphia Eagles. I drove out every day to a world of white people. And that world opened my life into a magical place that I don’t think I would’ve known. Most of my friends are dead. I watched friends die in my arms at 5, 6, 8\. When I grew up the rest of my friends died of AIDS. That I don’t have HIV is a miracle from God. So this evening is for my mom, because she knew I was destined for something — what that something is, I don’t know. But I love her from the bottom of my heart, and I honor her tonight, because this is really for her. Clara — Mom — stand up. ### See the Stars at the 2015 TIME 100 Gala  Kanye West and Kim Kardashian West attend the TIME 100 Gala at Jazz at Lincoln Center in New York City on April 21, 2015. Brendan McDermid—Reuters  Emma Watson attends the TIME 100 Gala at Jazz at Lincoln Center in New York City on April 21, 2015. Andrew Toth—FilmMagic/Getty Images  Julianne Moore attends the TIME 100 Gala at Jazz at Lincoln Center in New York City on Apr. 21, 2015. Kevin Mazur—Getty Images for TIME  Lorne Michaels attends the TIME 100 Gala at Jazz at Lincoln Center in New York, NY on Apr. 21, 2015. Kevin Mazur—Getty Images for TIME  Kanye West and Kim Kardashian West, along with Amy Schumer, attend the TIME 100 Gala at Jazz at Lincoln Center in New York City on Apr. 21, 2015. Kevin Mazur—Getty Images for TIME  Faith Hill and Tim McGraw attend the TIME 100 Gala at Jazz at Lincoln Center in New York City on Apr. 21, 2015. 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