--- description: The 'All About That Bass' singer has a lot of demands in her new music video title: Meghan Trainor Has a Lot of Demands in Her 'Dear Future Husband' Video image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltde093bcdab65f2d0/6988d9b9bc6cfc69913e2a3c/time-logo.jpg?branch=production --- * [Entertainment](/section/entertainment/) ## Entertainment Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close # Meghan Trainor Has _a Lot_ of Demands in Her New 'Dear Future Husband' Video  by [Nolan Feeney](/author/nolan-feeney/)  ## Nolan Feeney Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Mar 16, 2015 9:00 PM CUT  by [Nolan Feeney](/author/nolan-feeney/)  ## Nolan Feeney Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Mar 16, 2015 9:00 PM CUT If you want to date Meghan Trainor, these are just some of the rules you’re expected to abide by, according to her new [“Dear Future Husband”](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ShlW5plD%5F40 "undefined") video: tell her she’s beautiful every night, never attempt to win a fight, give her flowers on every anniversary, lower expectations about getting physical, put her family above yours and accept all of her irrational behavior without complaint. What she’s describing is not a relationship—it’s a Meghtatorship. Somehow, this clip is scarier than Taylor Swift’s [crazy-ex-girlfriend “Blank Space” video](http://time.com/3575716/taylor-swift-blank-space-video/ "undefined"), and there aren’t even any knives involved this time. But the “All About That Bass” singer says there’s a reason she’s so exacting. [Speaking with TIME last December](http://time.com/3468983/meghan-trainor-all-about-that-bass/ "undefined"), Trainor said she wrote songs like “Dear Future Husband” and “Title” to correct the problems she observed in modern dating and hook-up culture. “Growing up with social media, it’s all, “Did he like my picture today? Did he text me back in the next hour? He must hate me then!'” she said. “It’s much harder for us growing up. I know I didn’t like myself as much as I should have, and I hope people can hear my songs and know I’m a badass girl and I deserve a good guy to take me out on a date.” _Read next:_ [_Meghan Trainor Says Even Her Mom Is Tired of Hearing “All About That Bass”_](http://time.com/3468983/meghan-trainor-all-about-that-bass/ "undefined") ### Artists Who Have Never Won A Grammy  Queen John Rodgers—Redferns/Getty Images  Jackson 5 Michael Ochs Archives/Getty Images  Spice Girls Ray Burmiston—Photoshot/Getty Images  GLENDALE, AZ - FEBRUARY 01: Recording artist Katy Perry performs onstage during the Pepsi Super Bowl XLIX Halftime Show at University of Phoenix Stadium on February 1, 2015 in Glendale, Arizona. (Photo by Kevin Mazur/WireImage) Kevin Mazur—WireImage/Getty Images  Björk Mark Horton—WireImage/Getty Images  Diana Ross performs in Dublin. 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