--- title: Escaping the Career Waiting Trap description: Remember that actions trump intentions canonical: https://time.com/3702132/escaping-career-waiting-trap/ author: TIME article:opinion: false article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2015-02-18T14:00:36.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-05-11T04:42:40.404Z og:title: Escaping the Career Waiting Trap og:description: Remember that actions trump intentions og:url: https://time.com/3702132/escaping-career-waiting-trap/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt7e5bb92a1246df72/69877e57524fc0dcf6dec628/sb10063452b-003-copy.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 3507 og:image:height: 1973 og:image:alt: butterfly-break-out-jar og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: Escaping the Career Waiting Trap twitter:description: Remember that actions trump intentions twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt7e5bb92a1246df72/69877e57524fc0dcf6dec628/sb10063452b-003-copy.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # Escaping the Career Waiting Trap > Sponsored content. 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It is a free newsletter available at time.com/newsletters. ### Sources * TIME Newsletters: [time.com/newsletters](/c/time-nl-worth-2026q3/newsletters?i=5159f6d7-173a-4c04-aa0f-084964471bd5&cr=time-nl-worth-2026q3-v1) by [Live in the Grey](https://time.com/author/live-in-the-grey/) ## Live in the Grey Feb 18, 2015 2:00 PM UTC  Getty Images by [Live in the Grey](https://time.com/author/live-in-the-grey/) ## Live in the Grey Feb 18, 2015 2:00 PM UTC  _This_ [_article_](http://www.liveinthegrey.com/collaborating-actually-makes-sense-doesnt/) _originally appeared on_ [_Live in the Grey_](http://www.liveinthegrey.com/)_._ I’ve noticed lately that many of us fall victim to _the waiting trap_. This is especially common among us ‘go with the flow,’ ‘take life as it comes,’ ‘laid back’ types. We pride ourselves on being very thoughtful and reflective and not impulsive or overzealous when it comes to making a decision, especially the life-changing ones. But could our passive approach to life be one of the main things that hold us back from having what we want? How many times have we strongly desired change in our lives; a new job, more money, to start a business, to take a class, to get more clients, only to find that months or even years later, we’re stuck in the same problem? What gives? ## Goals we never meet Someone many years ago once told me that the reason I didn’t have what I wanted is because I hadn’t fully committed to it. I was still on the fence, still “figuring things out,” waiting for something to change while not actively going after it. Even when I did take action, my level of commitment was not consistent and I eventually fell back into old patterns. Does this sound familiar? With the start of a new year, I know many of you set new goals, new intentions, and new promises for yourselves. But the truth is, a year from now, many of us will find ourselves in the same situation. Even with good intentions for change, [only a fraction](http://www.statisticbrain.com/new-years-resolution-statistics/) (just 8%!) will actually achieve what we set out to do this year. What is really going on here? **MORE** [Turn a Layoff into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You](http://www.liveinthegrey.com/turn-layoff-best-thing-ever-happened/) ## Fighting change by waiting Here’s the thing. When it comes to making change, deep down we fear it. We fear that if we take control and become active in pursuing what we want, we might actually get it. And that scares us to death. As humans, we are frightened by the idea of change. We crave comfort and predictability in our routine and environment, so daring to make changes rings the alarm of discomfort and risk. Most of us avoid making change by entering the waiting trap. Waiting is passive. It keeps us stagnant, stale, and locked into a holding pattern that looks a lot like our comfort zones. Our tendency to wait things out is oftentimes fueled by fear. Waiting can show up as: * Indecision * Procrastination * Uncertainty * Hesitation * Wait-and-See Waiting can rob us of joy, happiness and fulfillment. But it often manifests itself in sneaky ways. [Beth Grant](https://bethgrant.infusionsoft.com/app/form/default-campaign-form4) coined the term the _Passive Yes_ as something we use to stay in Waiting. This is when you pretend to take action but you’re not really all-in. An example can be that someone claims they want to grow a new skillset, signs up for a seminar or workshop but doesn’t show up or do the exercises. Another example is when that same aspiring professional claims they don’t have the time or money to work on their goals. We can be really effective at keeping ourselves busy with other things that we claim are important or necessary but really just serve as distractions from what we truly want. This mind trick can keep us in a perpetual state of Waiting. We search for answers and evidence but become overwhelmed with the possibilities before ever making a decision or taking action. So what is the alternative? **MORE** [Why You Should Consider a Lateral Career Move](http://www.liveinthegrey.com/lateral-career-move/) ## Steps to take to escape waiting It’s important to recognize what Waiting truly is: a manifestation of fear. Sometimes all it takes is acknowledging that when you find yourself procrastinating or locked in indecision. Ask yourself what’s really going on and you may find your fear of what could happen if you make this change is dictating your life. Listen to your fear, and understand where it is coming from. The thing we most fear, that worst case scenario, rarely manifests the way we think it would. Even unlikely worst case scenarios can teach us important lessons. Once you recognize this, ask yourself the following questions: 1. What would happen if you stayed stuck waiting for something to change? 2. How would you feel if it was a year from now and nothing has changed? 3. What are you willing to risk and explore in order to keep going forward, and what do you have to gain? Enlist help and support as you work through this. Partner with someone who will not hold you back and commiserate with you but will empower and hold you accountable to take action. When you take action, and this is very important, make sure it is an action that gets you out of your comfort zone. It doesn’t have to be a super huge action that terrifies you. But it will make you feel a little uncomfortable. If it does, that’s a good sign that it’s a move that will help you _grow_. Now it’s you’re turn. 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