--- title: Living Life Without Regret: 3 Secrets From Research description: Because research says it's what you make of it canonical: https://time.com/3676444/living-life-without-regret/ author: Eric Barker article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2015-01-24T12:00:53.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-03-31T08:08:37.679Z article:section: Ideas og:title: Living Life Without Regret: 3 Secrets From Research og:description: Because research says it's what you make of it og:url: https://time.com/3676444/living-life-without-regret/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt9f11daf2e8c68c49/69877aff428a9e47c8cc6afd/180550662-copy.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 og:image:width: 3888 og:image:height: 2187 og:image:alt: Silhouette-girl-jumping og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: Living Life Without Regret: 3 Secrets From Research twitter:description: Because research says it's what you make of it twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt9f11daf2e8c68c49/69877aff428a9e47c8cc6afd/180550662-copy.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  # Living Life Without Regret: 3 Secrets From Research > Sponsored content. 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(The split is about [75/25](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/what-are-we-most-likely-to-regret).) * [Education was the biggest inducer of regret](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/what-do-we-regret-most-why), followed by career, romance, parenting, the self, and leisure. * You’re more likely to [regret purchasing things](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/what-do-we-regret-buying-what-do-we-regret-no). You’re more likely to regret _not_ purchasing experiences. And for the big picture: [what do people regret the most before they die?](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/what-do-people-regret-the-most-before-they-di) **1\. “I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.”** **2\. “I wish I didn’t work so hard.”** **3\. “I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.”** **4\. “I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.”** **5\. “I wish that I had let myself be happier.”** So what can you do to live a life without regret? * First, stop worrying. You anticipate regret will be much more painful than it actually is. [Studies show we consistently overestimate how regret affects us.](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/do-we-work-too-hard-to-avoid-regret) * Leaving options open is not the answer. Ironically, [leaving options open makes you dwell on whether you should change your mind.](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/is-leaving-your-options-open-the-path-to-happ) Once the situation is no longer reversible, cognitive dissonance works to your advantage and you’re more likely to be at peace. * As with anything related to happiness, perspective is most of the battle. Stop comparing your situation to a lofty, perfect one and [compare it to something far worse that you could have opted for](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/how-to-quickly-and-easily-reduce-regret). In studies this is consistently associated with lower regret intensity. **_This piece originally appeared on_** [**_Barking Up the Wrong Tree_**](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2012/07/how-can-you-live-life-without-regret-70477/)**_._** **Join over 150,000 readers. 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