--- description: Marie Stopes' work made another appearance on the show title: Downton Abbey and Marie Stopes Contraception Books: A True Story image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltd4d14dd434aa315c/698778670b72e368bc6dcf89/stopes.jpg?branch=production&width=1440&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  * [History](/section/history/) ## History Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close # The True History Behind _Downton Abbey_'s Scandalous Sex Book  by [Lily Rothman](/author/lily-rothman/)  ## Lily Rothman Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Rothman is managing editor at TIME. Jan 12, 2015 12:00 PM CUT  Marie Stopes (1880 - 1958), who popularized the use of birth control in Britain with her books 'Married Love' and 'Wise Parenthood' Marie Stopes (1880 - 1958), who popularized the use of birth control in Britain with her books 'Married Love' and 'Wise Parenthood'Ron Gerelli / Getty Images  by [Lily Rothman](/author/lily-rothman/)  ## Lily Rothman Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Rothman is managing editor at TIME. Jan 12, 2015 12:00 PM CUT **_Contains spoilers for Season 5 Episode 2 of_** **Downton Abbey** In the episode of _Downton Abbey_ that aired for U.S. audiences on Jan. 11, the name is only mentioned briefly. Lady Mary hands a book to her maid Anna and mentions the author as she sends Anna off on an embarrassing errand — but to a British woman of the early 1920s the implication was clear: the name Marie Stopes meant birth control. Stopes is famous as the author of the 1918 marriage manual _Married Love_, which she was inspired to write after her own marriage was annulled. She was a scientist — an expert on plant fossils — and challenged the Victorian idea that it was improper for a woman to enjoy sex. She also wrote about contraception; in fact, she was a proponent of the belief that waiting to conceive a child would result in a stronger relationship between husband and wife. The book was a bestseller in England, though still controversial, and it was banned in the U.S. for obscenity for more than a decade. Though _Married Love_ made Stopes famous — and got [a shout-out on _Downton_ last season](http://entertainment.time.com/2014/01/19/downton-abbey-recap-the-baby-blues/ "undefined") — its sequel, _Wise Parenthood_, published within a year of the first, is more likely to have been the book Mary turned to for help. Stopes wrote in the introduction to the sequel that she had received a deluge of inquiries for more specific information about how to actually obtain and use the contraceptive plans she advocated. In 1921, she went even further, opening the world’s first birth-control clinic, and then following that up with others throughout the country. (The item that Anna ends up buying at the pharmacy, in its nondescript paper bag, is likely to have been a cervical cap.) Stopes wasn’t always ahead of her time — there was often an undercurrent of eugenics to her ideas on birth control, and when she died in 1958, TIME remarked diplomatically that “she got a few weird ideas” over the years. But her books helped bring women like Lady Mary into a future where their love lives didn’t have to be controlled by the ever-present threat of motherhood, and where there were alternatives to the [illegal abortion](http://entertainment.time.com/2014/02/10/downton-abbey-pro-life-abortion/ "undefined") to which Lady Edith was almost driven last season. That shift, from past to future, is what _Downton_ is all about — and Marie Stopes, as TIME wrote when she died, was right there with them: --- > “” --- **_Read the full story here in the TIME Vault:_** [Early Crusader](http://time.com/vault/issue/1958-10-13/page/86/ "undefined") ```json [{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"NewsArticle","@id":"https://time.com/3656376/downton-abbey-married-love/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https://time.com/3656376/downton-abbey-married-love/"},"headline":"The True History Behind Downton Abbey's Scandalous Sex Book","datePublished":"2015-01-12T12:00:36.000Z","dateModified":"2026-02-22T03:20:23.297Z","description":"Marie Stopes' work made another appearance on the show","url":"https://time.com/3656376/downton-abbey-married-love/","keywords":["Television","downton abbey","Birth Control","health"],"thumbnailUrl":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltd4d14dd434aa315c/698778670b72e368bc6dcf89/stopes.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","author":[{"@type":"Person","name":"Lily Rothman","jobTitle":"Rothman is managing editor at TIME.","url":"https://time.com/author/lily-rothman/"}],"articleSection":"History","image":[{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltd4d14dd434aa315c/698778670b72e368bc6dcf89/stopes.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","width":1200,"height":675,"headline":"Dr Marie Stopes","caption":"Dr Marie Stopes","creditText":"Ron Gerelli / Getty Images","representativeOfPage":true}],"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Time","url":"https://time.com/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://time.com/images/logo.png","width":528,"height":156},"foundingDate":"March 3, 1923","sameAs":["https://www.facebook.com/time","https://www.instagram.com/time/?hl=en","https://twitter.com/time","https://www.pinterest.com/timemagazine"]}},{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"/section/history/","name":"History"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https://time.com/3656376/downton-abbey-married-love/","name":"The True History Behind Downton Abbey's Scandalous Sex Book"}}]}] ```