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Octavia Monroe, photographed at her home in Willingboro, NJ
Octavia Monroe, photographed at her home in Willingboro, NJ, October 19, 2013. Dana Lixenberg for TIME

Someone I Loved Was Never Born

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Richards is a journalist who frequently writes about genetics and the author of Motherhood, Rescheduled: The New Frontier of Egg Freezing and the Women Who Tried It.

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