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# Here’s the Magic Number That Leads to Happiness

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## Eric Barker


Nov 3, 2014 5:01 AM UTC

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## Eric Barker


Nov 3, 2014 5:01 AM UTC

How much happiness does it take to make up for the sadness in life?

A ratio of 3 to 1.

Via [Rainy Brain, Sunny Brain: How to Retrain Your Brain to Overcome Pessimism and Achieve a More Positive Outlook](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0465019455/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0465019455&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20):

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How many people are at 3 to 1? Around 20%.

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Is your spider-sense tingling? If you’re a regular reader it should be: we’ve seen similar patterns with ratios and happiness before. While 3 to 1 keeps you happy, 5 to 1 keeps relationships smooth.

Via [The Ape in the Corner Office: How to Make Friends, Win Fights and Work Smarter by Understanding Human Nature](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1400052203/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&tag=spacforrent-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1400052203):


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This may be hard-wired. It’s seen in other primates:

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The specific ratio for different relationships varies, with the overall pattern indicating **the more distant the relationship, the more good you need for every bad**. A full chart is [here](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2012/05/14/should-you-be-nicer-to-your-spouse-or-your-mo/).


Just as well we’ve also seen in the past that **it usually benefits us more to focus on increasing the good vs trying to eliminate the bad.**

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When it comes to happiness, [**frequency beats intensity**](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/8-ways-that-money-can-buy-happiness).

**_This piece originally appeared on_** [**_Barking Up the Wrong Tree_**](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2012/10/how-much-happiness-does-it-take-to-make-up-for-the-sadness-in-life/)**_._**


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