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In September, a study of [12,000 Finns](http://time.com/3433014/men-women-dating-mid-20s/) reaffirmed what prior research had [already established](http://time.com/3302251/9-ugly-truths-big-data-ok-cupid-book/). But there’s something fishy about all that data. If dudes were really so set on their caveman-era mating habits, wouldn’t we see more single ladies over 30 home knitting tea cozies on Friday nights? (Then again, just because a guy wants to date a younger girl, doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to date him!) As a woman over 30, I decided to try to get to the bottom of this conundrum by asking a series of straight, unmarried men in their 20s, 30s, 40s and 50s to find out why some actually prefer to date “older” women. Turns out, there’s lots to love about women of a certain age. **Men in their 20s date women over 30 because:** “They understand better how to interact in a relationship.” _— José Fernández, 24 (single)_ “I appreciate the grace and expression of slightly older women. Certain facial features, like smile lines, can be charming.” _— Niv, 25 (single)_ “They know what they want. There is more of an end game. So if you meet their criteria, they’re good.” _— Billy, 27 (has a girlfriend)_ “I think women in their 30s are in their prime. Sexual maturity, the way that they carry themselves — for me something about it screams woman.” _— Alex Sanza, 28 (single)_ “They are more stable.” _— Solomon, 29 (just started seeing someone over 30)_ **While men in their 30s say:** “Generally more expert at the multisensory/theatrical aspects of the whole dance.” _— Anonymous, 30 (single)_ “Much better sex” _— Anonymous, 32 (actively dating)_ “When I was in my 20s, I was drawn to older women because it gave me a certain level of confidence because she was established. She’s not as needy.” ­_— Peter Bailey, 34 (“not married”)_ “More nurturing.” _— Percy Baldonado, 38 (single)_ **Men in their 40s add:** “Women over 30 have stopped putting metal through their lips and tongues which makes it easier to kiss them. And they’ve figured out their makeup routine so they won’t keep you waiting as long when you’re trying to get to an event.” _— Anonymous, 49 (seeing someone)_ “Age has never really played a role in who I date … I have dated my own age, younger than me, and older. What it comes down to is, I like this girl, she’s cute, and I’d like to see her again.” _— Chris Dinneen, 41 (in a relationship)_ “I always liked somewhat older women for their maturity, self confidence and poise, finding those qualities quite attractive and usually absent in younger girls.” _— Daren, 45 (in a long-term relationship)_ **And men in their 50s prefer women over 30 because:** “We have similar life experiences and similar pop culture references. It’s a little more comfortable.” _— David, 50 (seeing someone, not exclusive)_ “Given that I’m 52, I can’t really relate to dating someone in her 20s — too much of an age difference.” _— Patrick, 52 (single)_ ```json [{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"NewsArticle","@id":"https://time.com/3476057/15-guys-explain-why-they-date-women-over-30/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https://time.com/3476057/15-guys-explain-why-they-date-women-over-30/"},"headline":"15 Guys Explain Why They Date Women Over 30","datePublished":"2014-10-07T17:45:13.000Z","dateModified":"2026-04-13T08:56:07.477Z","description":"Here's why older is better in some men's eyes","url":"https://time.com/3476057/15-guys-explain-why-they-date-women-over-30/","keywords":["Living","women","Dating","Sex","relationships","Men"],"thumbnailUrl":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt052e43a91d65b644/6986a73fd0b6f23967306838/171789045.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","author":[{"@type":"Person","name":"Anita Hamilton","jobTitle":null,"url":"https://time.com/author/anita-hamilton/"}],"articleSection":"","image":[{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt052e43a91d65b644/6986a73fd0b6f23967306838/171789045.jpg?branch=production&width=1200&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=1200:675&height=675","width":1200,"height":675,"headline":"171789045","caption":"171789045","creditText":"Tom Merton—Getty Images/OJO Images RF","representativeOfPage":true}],"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Time","url":"https://time.com/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://time.com/images/logo.png","width":528,"height":156},"foundingDate":"March 3, 1923","sameAs":["https://www.facebook.com/time","https://www.instagram.com/time/?hl=en","https://twitter.com/time","https://www.pinterest.com/timemagazine"]}},{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"/tag/time-section-living/","name":"Living"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https://time.com/3476057/15-guys-explain-why-they-date-women-over-30/","name":"15 Guys Explain Why They Date Women Over 30"}}]}] ```