--- description: This can be a checklist of what not to do title: The Top 5 Career Regrets image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltd85ad92581919490/6986a670f983e71a8904ffa3/184235924.jpg?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=16:9 ---  * [Ideas](/section/ideas/) ## Ideas Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close # Live Without Regrets: What Are the Top 5 Career Regrets? by [Eric Barker](/author/eric-barker/) ## Eric Barker Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Oct 2, 2014 4:01 AM CUT  Guilty businesswoman behind laptop Guilty businesswoman behind laptopPeter Dazeley—Getty Images by [Eric Barker](/author/eric-barker/) ## Eric Barker Update your preferences in [Account Settings](/account/preferences/) Close Oct 2, 2014 4:01 AM CUT ## How can you live without regrets? To live without regrets, first you need to know what the most common ones are. Over at [Harvard Business Review](http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2012/12/the%5Ftop%5Ffive%5Fcareer%5Fregrets.html "undefined"), [Daniel Gulati](https://twitter.com/danielgulati "undefined") discusses his informal study of people’s biggest regrets about their career. He talked to professionals who ranged in age and represented a variety of different industries but five ideas came up again and again: ## **1\. I wish I hadn’t taken the job for the money.** “By far the biggest regret of all came from those who opted into high-paying but ultimately dissatisfying careers.” ## **2\. I wish I had quit earlier.** “Almost uniformly, those who had actually quit their jobs to pursue their passions wished they had done so earlier.” ## **3\. I wish I had the confidence to start my own business.** “A recent study found that 70% of workers wished their current job would help them with starting a business in the future, yet only 15% said they had what it takes to actually venture out on their own.” ## **4\. I wish I had used my time at school more productively.** “Although more students are attending college, many of the group’s participants wished they had thoughtfully parlayed their school years into a truly rewarding first job.” ## **5\. I wish I had acted on my career hunches.** “Several individuals recounted windows of opportunity in their careers, or as one professional described, ‘now-or-never moments.’” **What else do we know about regret?** I’ve posted about research into the subject of regret before. So what do we regret the most? * You’re more likely to [regret the things you didn’t do](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/what-do-we-regret-the-most "undefined") than the things you did. (The split is about [75/25](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/what-are-we-most-likely-to-regret "undefined").) * [Education was the biggest inducer of regret](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/what-do-we-regret-most-why "undefined"), followed by career, romance, parenting, the self, and leisure. * You’re more likely to [regret purchasing things](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/what-do-we-regret-buying-what-do-we-regret-no "undefined"). You’re more likely to regret _not_ purchasing experiences. **What do people regret the most before they die?** [Bronnie Ware](http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/140194065X/ref=as%5Fli%5Fss%5Ftl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=140194065X&linkCode=as2&tag=spacforrent-20 "undefined") worked in palliative care for many years, tending to people during the last three to twelve weeks of their lives. A handful of themes cropped up in the things they regretted during their final days: **1\. “I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.”** **2\. “I wish I didn’t work so hard.”** **3\. “I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.”** **4\. “I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.”** **5\. “I wish that I had let myself be happier.”** To them, these were regrets. For you, this can be a checklist of what not to do. **_This piece originally appeared on_** [**_Barking Up the Wrong Tree_**](http://www.bakadesuyo.com/ "undefined")**_._** **Join more than 100,000 readers.** Get a free weekly update via email [here](http://eepurl.com/o6uAD "undefined"). 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