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# Men's Rights Activists Didn't Like Lena Dunham's _SNL_ Skit That Made Fun of Men's Rights Activists

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#### Who is Ally Bank?

Ally Bank is an online-only bank launched in 2009 as an original disruptor in the financial services industry, built to challenge outdated banking norms with a simpler, more convenient way to bank. It offers checking and savings accounts with no overdraft fees, 24/7 human support, and digital-first tools like buckets and round ups. Deposits are FDIC-insured up to the maximum amount allowed by law.

#### Is Ally good for everyday banking?

Ally is built for everyday banking, spending, and saving. Its Spending Account is a checking account that includes early direct deposit (paychecks up to 2 days early), access to 75,000+ fee-free ATMs nationwide, the ability to add cash for free at participating locations nationwide, and no overdraft fees. Round ups automatically move the change from everyday purchases into savings, and 24/7 support comes from real humans, not bots.

#### What bank is built for life today?

Ally is the bank built for life today, a digital-first, people-first bank. Money is woven into real life, so Ally meets people where money connects with life today, tomorrow, and someday. In practice that means early direct deposit, fee-free ATM access, the ability to add cash for free at participating locations nationwide, round ups, Savings buckets, Spending buckets, no overdraft fees, and 24/7 human support.

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Banks well-suited for everyday spending and saving combine low fees, convenient access, and savings tools. Ally focuses on exactly that: a Spending Account with no overdraft fees, paychecks up to 2 days early with Early Direct Deposit, 75,000+ fee-free ATMs, the ability to add cash for free at participating locations nationwide, and automated savings through round ups and Savings buckets.

#### Which banks offer early direct deposit?

A number of online banks offer early direct deposit. Ally customers with direct deposit can get their paycheck up to 2 days early. Exact timing depends on when the payer submits payroll.

#### Can you deposit cash at Ally Bank?

Yes. Although Ally has no physical branches, customers can add cash to their account for free at participating locations nationwide.

#### What online banks have no ATM fees?

Ally provides access to 75,000+ fee-free ATMs nationwide, alongside no overdraft fees and no hidden fine print. Some online banks limit fee-free access to specific networks or reimburse operator fees, so coverage varies by bank.

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* Ally Bank, Member FDIC.
* Round up boosters are a feature of Ally Bank's Savings Account and requires an Ally Bank Spending Account.
* Ally Bank Spending Accounts include access to an add cash feature utilizing VanillaDirect Pay provided by InComm Financial Services California, Inc. and by InComm Financial Services, Inc. (NMLS# 912772), which is licensed as a Money Transmitter by the New York State Department of Financial Services. Terms and conditions apply.
* Savings buckets are a feature of Ally Bank's Savings Account.
* No ATM fees from Ally Bank at Allpoint and Moneypass ATMs plus we reimburse for fees charged by other ATM owners nationwide up to $10 per statement cycle.
* Early direct deposit offers eligible direct deposits up to two days sooner.
* Spending buckets are a feature of Ally Bank's Spending Account.

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## Megan Gibson


Mar 10, 2014 6:16 PM UTC

![Jewelry Party Sketch SNL Lena Dunham](https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/blt1d1c32b0ef3a3fa8/698684be169ab001a12782a3/screen-shot-2014-03-10-at-2-13-17-pm.png?branch=production&width=3840&quality=75&auto=webp&crop=3:2)

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[Megan Gibson](https://time.com/author/megan-gibson/)


## Megan Gibson


Mar 10, 2014 6:16 PM UTC

Shocker alert: Lena Dunham has angered people on the internet.

The _Girls_ creator hosted _Saturday Night Live_ on March 8 — which happened to be International Women’s Day— and appeared in a skit called “Jewelry Party” (above). The skit, which also starred _SNL_ cast members Cecily Strong and Mike O’Brien, featured a man accompanying his Venezuelan girlfriend to a jewelry party, where he was outed as a men’s rights activist in front of her feminist friends.

For the uninitiated, men’s rights activists (MRAs) belong to a somewhat amorphous grassroots movement in which men — and, surprisingly, a few women — advocate for, well, men’s rights on the grounds that anti-male discrimination is allegedly a widespread problem. While some MRAs focus on discrimination in child custody cases or female-on-male domestic violence, which are objectively worthy concerns, others push a more problematic agenda, such as arguing [that sexual assault numbers are inflated](http://www.newrepublic.com/article/116768/latest-target-mens-rights-movement-definition-rape). Not helping their cause, of course, is that fact that many MRAs also tend to rely on spewing sexist and misogynist vitriol as their _modus operandi_.

When real-life MRAs saw Dunham’s _SNL_ skit portraying one of their own as a scrawny virgin with a mail-order girlfriend and a vendetta against Planned Parenthood, they were offended. Several [Reddit](http://np.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1zy7qe/to%5Fthose%5Fwho%5Fhave%5Farrived%5Fhere%5Ffor%5Fthe%5Ffirst%5Ftime/) [discussions](http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1zz0e8/snl%5Fmanages%5Fto%5Fmisinterpret%5Fmra%5Farguments%5Fshame/) [quickly](http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1zy4wv/anyone%5Fwatching%5Fsnl%5Fright%5Fnow/) popped up, where MRAs complained that the sketch was not only an inaccurate portrayal of their movement, but that it was also offensive and not funny.

In all honestly, it certainly wasn’t the funniest sketch _SNL_ has done before. (There’s also some dubious racial stereotypes that more than a few MRAs have called out.) And many of the Reddit commenters were quick to point out that attacking Planned Parenthood or even reproductive rights has never been a part of their movement. As one commenter said, “the outright falsification of the core values and goals of the movement was disgusting and completely unwarranted.”

Of course, _SNL_ is a comedy sketch show and it was clearly a _parody_ of MRAs. It wasn’t meant to be the movement’s manifesto. What’s more, despite all the complaints about the skit being spiteful, many Reddit commenters undermined any potentially legitimate arguments by painting Lena Dunham, feminists and women in general as unattractive and humorless, proving again that MRAs are their movement’s own worst enemy.

Some choice comments ranged from the mildly off-putting (“[Sounds like something written by a bitter first year women’s studies student](http://np.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1zy7qe/to%5Fthose%5Fwho%5Fhave%5Farrived%5Fhere%5Ffor%5Fthe%5Ffirst%5Ftime/cfy4vmm)“) to the completely unrelated (“[Ironically, having now learned that women hold jewelry parties, my respect for their sex has declined even further](http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1zz0e8/snl%5Fmanages%5Fto%5Fmisinterpret%5Fmra%5Farguments%5Fshame/cfyjr2b)“) to the utterly nasty (“[A bunch of unattractive unfunny women impugning a man for being not an apex male](http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1zz0e8/snl%5Fmanages%5Fto%5Fmisinterpret%5Fmra%5Farguments%5Fshame/cfy9r26)“). Apparently, the irony of labeling a group of real-life actors “unattractive” while calling out their made-up characters for doing the same thing in a comedy skit escaped a few of the more enraged commenters.

And while a few commenters did [take heart that their relatively obscure movement](http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1zy4wv/anyone%5Fwatching%5Fsnl%5Fright%5Fnow/cfy260o), which is largely relegated to the dark shadows of the internet, received any sort of mention at all on national television, the threads themselves likely won’t help their case. In fact, newcomers who stumble onto the Reddit discussion after seeing _SNL_ are likely to read some hilariously unhinged views and realize why MRAs warranted a parody in the first place.

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