--- title: Memorial Day: The Questions We Should, and Don't, Ask description: Why can’t we ask if these wars were right or wrong, worth the terrible sacrifices, or what we have learned from them? canonical: https://time.com/119998/the-questions-we-dont-ask-on-memorial-day/ author: Jim Wallis article:opinion: true article:content_tier: free article:published_time: 2014-05-27T18:31:50.000Z article:modified_time: 2026-04-13T08:54:09.954Z article:section: Ideas og:title: Memorial Day: The Questions We Should, and Don't, Ask og:description: Why can’t we ask if these wars were right or wrong, worth the terrible sacrifices, or what we have learned from them? og:url: https://time.com/119998/the-questions-we-dont-ask-on-memorial-day/ og:site_name: TIME og:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltde093bcdab65f2d0/6988d9b9bc6cfc69913e2a3c/time-logo.jpg?branch=production og:image:width: 1200 og:image:height: 675 og:image:alt: TIME og:type: article twitter:card: summary_large_image twitter:title: Memorial Day: The Questions We Should, and Don't, Ask twitter:description: Why can’t we ask if these wars were right or wrong, worth the terrible sacrifices, or what we have learned from them? twitter:image: https://static.time.com/v3/assets/bltea6093859af6183b/bltde093bcdab65f2d0/6988d9b9bc6cfc69913e2a3c/time-logo.jpg?branch=production --- # The Questions We Don't Ask on Memorial Day > Sponsored content. 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For the families of those war victims and so many of their fellow veterans it was a day of remembering and mourning. In the quiet moments of listening to the national anthem while looking at the American flag, our little baseball crowd with hats off _might_ have been thinking about the meaning of the national holiday. But right afterward it was “Play Ball.” On Memorial Days I always end up listening to the many stories from the families who lost their most beloved ones and from the veterans whose eyes still tear up when they recall their dearest buddies lost on battlefields far away. The emotion and pain always moves me. And watching all the messages of veterans’ organizations, you also see the incredible pain of those who came back from war with injuries and memories that still afflict their bodies, minds, and hearts. But I also wonder why nobody raises the questions about why all these sons and daughters, brothers and sisters, dads and moms–all these best of friends–had to die in those wars. So why can’t we ask if these wars were right or wrong, worth the terrible sacrifices, or what we have learned from the wars? What was gained or lost? Who decided to go to war? And why do _their_ families often bear the _least_ consequences for the war decisions? These are very hard questions, and people get angry when they are raised as some already are in reading this. Some will say it disrespects those who have suffered and died. But to raise the hard questions of why wars were decided and who decided them is actually a way to respect those who paid such a heavy price and perhaps would prevent more such horrible human costs. I almost never hear veterans speak about the merits of their war, or its cause or purpose, or the strategies and ideologies behind the decisions to go to war. They talk about their friends, their brothers and sisters, their “family” who they lost on the battlefield. And the families of lost servicemen and women talk about how their loss was so devastating and life-changing. Hardly any of the Memorial Day testimonies are to the war; they are to the war victims. The war in my youth was the Vietnam War and I still hardly ever go to the Vietnam Memorial. The few times I’ve gone there, I felt enormous pain. My generation’s names are etched on that long black wall, and when I read and touch them I feel overwhelmed with grief. The Vietnam War was based on lies and was exposed as a political and moral mistake, but went on even after we knew it was wrong and destined for disaster. Vietnam’s American casualties were disproportionately lower-income and racial minorities. This war sank into tactics that killed many innocents while damaging the souls of our own soldiers. Vietnam violated our nation’s best values and religious convictions, but even then many were angry when leaders like Dr. King asked hard questions about war. Iraq was another war based on lies, and morally compounded by being a war over oil. Was this a war of necessity or choice? Again, the casualties were significantly lower-income people and racial minorities who volunteered for the military hoping for future opportunities they didn’t have. Only some brave souls questioned why so few were asked to bear the terrible costs while the rest of the nation went on with life as usual. Afghanistan, begun to bring those who attacked us to justice, became the longest war in our history, again without honest answers to what we really have accomplished. War has become such a business in America, whose beneficiaries are not the people we remember on Memorial Day. The veterans we honored yesterday are not even receiving adequate care when they come home [and are being used as political pawns](http://www.nytimes.com/2014/05/27/us/veterans-groups-lash-out-at-republican-senator.html), as the latest Veterans Administration scandal reveals. As we remember those who died serving our country, Memorial Day should also be a day when we ask the hard questions about our wars, what we have learned, and whether such painful losses are truly worth the terrible cost. _Jim Wallis_ _is president of_ [Sojourners](http://go.sojo.net/site/R?i=v%5FLuQxbPkYFijaopaWNyfQ)_._ _Follow Jim on Twitter_ _@JimWallis_ _._ ```json [{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"OpinionNewsArticle","@id":"https://time.com/119998/the-questions-we-dont-ask-on-memorial-day/","mainEntityOfPage":{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https://time.com/119998/the-questions-we-dont-ask-on-memorial-day/"},"headline":"The Questions We Don't Ask on Memorial Day","datePublished":"2014-05-27T18:31:50.000Z","dateModified":"2026-04-13T08:54:09.954Z","description":"Why can’t we ask if these wars were right or wrong, worth the terrible sacrifices, or what we have learned from them?","url":"https://time.com/119998/the-questions-we-dont-ask-on-memorial-day/","keywords":["Veterans","Vietnam","Afghanistan","Iraq","Religion","war","faith","Ethics","Memorial Day"],"thumbnailUrl":"","author":[{"@type":"Person","name":"Jim Wallis","jobTitle":null,"url":"https://time.com/author/jim-wallis/"}],"articleSection":"Ideas","image":[],"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Time","url":"https://time.com/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","url":"https://time.com/images/logo.png","width":528,"height":156},"foundingDate":"March 3, 1923","sameAs":["https://www.facebook.com/time","https://www.instagram.com/time/?hl=en","https://twitter.com/time","https://www.pinterest.com/timemagazine"]}},{"@context":"https://schema.org","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"item":{"@id":"/section/ideas/","name":"Ideas"}},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"item":{"@id":"https://time.com/119998/the-questions-we-dont-ask-on-memorial-day/","name":"The Questions We Don't Ask on Memorial Day"}}]}] ```